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I just found out My boyfriend of 11 months is watching porn. When we first got together be made it clear he didn't need porn or watch it ever. And that he never masturbates because he finds that "gross". So he used to ask me questions about porn because he never really watched it. He asked "are there videos with girls with big butts and stuff?" And I said yes obviously. About 4 months later I found porn on his phone, I was furious. But it was just women and their asses no real porn, weird, right,? When I confronted him at first he lied, then said he was doing it for only the past few days and he'd stop he swore and I believed him. A few weeks go by I realize his history's deleted, he says it's because he wanted to catch me out snooping, I believed him and then just the other day I found tranny twerking in his YouTube video history!!!!!!! He was so embarrassed, swore it was an accident. Then admitted he was just curious, now I'm sick to my stomach, he said he's definitely not going to watch porn anymore because of how embarrassing it was for him, he said he didn't like it and he watches it and doesn't masterbate I asked what's the point in watching it then and he said he's just bored and he doesn't know why. He swears up and down he never touches himself when watching it but I don't believe him!! I can't stop thinking about him lying and not wanting me.
You need a boyfriend who believes in the same things you do. Trying to control him and nag him into what you want will just make both of you miserable.
You need a boyfriend who believes in the same things you do. Trying to control him and nag him into what you want will just make both of you miserable.
Agreed! I personally couldn't care less if my bf watched porn, but clearly it's important to you OP, so find someone on the same page.
Look, you cannot shame someone into doing/thinking/enjoying what they want. If his beliefs and interests are outside yours, move on and quit making him feel embarrassed. It's something some people enjoy. And masturbation does not cause blindness btw...
You need a boyfriend who believes in the same things you do. Trying to control him and nag him into what you want will just make both of you miserable.
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OP i assume you don't masterbate then?
Plus why are you snooping? If you don't trust him then that should be enough to break up with him shouldn't it? And for what it's worth with you making him walk on egg shells, nagging, arguing, trying to catch him out etc etc I CANT believe he hasn't dumped you yet
I have a problem with him watching porn, it almost bothers me even more because he doesn't masturbate... It's just weird. Because I usually don't have a problem with porn, all of my exes were addicts but he made an attempt to let me know early on that he never watches it and he admitted the other day it's weird because before he never Watched it but now he has
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