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If I was dating a guy who said he thought masturbation was gross, I would drop him immediately. That's a very repressed attitude. Repression can lead to many things, none of them good.
I was taught masturbation was frowned upon by society
Yeah, but what I'm trying to get at is he himself told me before we even dated without me even asking that he doesn't watch porn because he can get the real thing. And then just recently he started watching. I think he's just curious and gets bored. Either way, he tells me he loves me and we've also discussed marriage and children. He already has a son of him own that I care for as my own. I've had soar a year invested in him and his son and I wouldn't leave unless that's what he wants.
See. Here is the problem. Unless he has a girlfriend since he hit puberty, then he can get the real thing anytime he wants. Otherwise, at some point of his life, he is by himself. Unless he use hookers all the time, there has to be some form of release.
Does he has a macho attitude that doesn't admit he has weakness and needs?
Next, it is one thing about not watching porn. It is another thing to claim not knowing what porn is. Now, come on, even women knows what type of porns exist out there. They don't watch it but they certainly look at them at one point just to see what the heck they are.
So, thats another lie. There are 2 things I don't buy.
1) does not watch porn
2) does not even know what porn is
Taught by whom? Do you agree it should be "frowned upon"?
When I was growing up, the school I went to was ran by a school district in a conservative state (now it switched to liberal so it can put Obama in office). I don't think masturbation should be frowned upon but it should be done privately.
When I was growing up, the school I went to was ran by a school district in a conservative state (now it switched to liberal so it can put Obama in office). I don't think masturbation should be frowned upon but it should be done privately.
Look, you cannot shame someone into doing/thinking/enjoying what they want. If his beliefs and interests are outside yours, move on and quit making him feel embarrassed. It's something some people enjoy. And masturbation does not cause blindness btw...
All this. The BF is baing dishonest because he knows you were going to freak out about him masturbating and watching porn. I'll tell you a little secret OP (and it's no secret). All guys do both. And if they say they don't, they're lying. Just ask your BF
I just found out My boyfriend of 11 months is watching porn. When we first got together be made it clear he didn't need porn or watch it ever. And that he never masturbates because he finds that "gross". So he used to ask me questions about porn because he never really watched it. He asked "are there videos with girls with big butts and stuff?" And I said yes obviously. About 4 months later I found porn on his phone, I was furious. But it was just women and their asses no real porn, weird, right,? When I confronted him at first he lied, then said he was doing it for only the past few days and he'd stop he swore and I believed him. A few weeks go by I realize his history's deleted, he says it's because he wanted to catch me out snooping, I believed him and then just the other day I found tranny twerking in his YouTube video history!!!!!!! He was so embarrassed, swore it was an accident. Then admitted he was just curious, now I'm sick to my stomach, he said he's definitely not going to watch porn anymore because of how embarrassing it was for him, he said he didn't like it and he watches it and doesn't masterbate I asked what's the point in watching it then and he said he's just bored and he doesn't know why. He swears up and down he never touches himself when watching it but I don't believe him!! I can't stop thinking about him lying and not wanting me.
This is not sex therapy 101, you should discuss your sexual issues with your boyfriend not the entire
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One's intimate *private* life should remain just that and I'm sure your boyfriend appreciates you telling everyone about his *private* sexual release actions.
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