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I have been seriously dating this girl since last week. We were good friends before we started dating, and we are doing great and almost official. Today, we went to a local park for a hike and took a break at a very nice overlook. We laid down in each other's arms and eventually started putting our hands up each other's shirts. I was not touching her breasts at all, but I had my hand almost at her bra, and she was massaging my upper stomach. When we were still feeling each other up (our shirts were halfway off at this point) I heard a guy's voice shouting "Oh my God!" I quickly scrambled to get up, and to my horror it was somebody that I used to work with at my job and his friend, who I also used to work with. He also had a girl with him. Our initial interaction consisted of mostly stammering and nervous laughing, and the girl he was with could not have looked more uncomfortable. We started chatting awkwardly about his new job and stuff and I just asked how his summer was going, but the 3 of them seemed so freaked out that they "had to go." This guy and I aren't friends, but we have a ton of mutual friends, and our moms talk to each other quite a bit. I am thinking now that this guy will tell all of our mutual friends and his mother what my girlfriend and I were doing, and his friends will all be laughing and ripping me apart, and my mother will be confronting me and questioning me. Do you think that I have a rational concern here, or do you not think that this guy will start telling everybody what he caught us doing? When we worked together, I was single the whole time and he never saw me talk to a girl, so I feel like it's so unusual for him that he will have to preach it to everyone. Additionally, if you were the guy that caught us, what would you think and what would you do?
I'm worried that he will tell everyone he knows. So far I haven't heard anything from anyone about it, but to me it's nobody's personal business. We were not doing anything illegal, so to me it's a private matter.
I'm worried that he will tell everyone he knows. So far I haven't heard anything from anyone about it, but to me it's nobody's personal business. We were not doing anything illegal, so to me it's a private matter.
Okay, so you're embarrassed,. But on the other hand if he does tell people and it gets back to you, you can spin it so you look like a stud and not a perv/exhibitionist who has sex in the woods.
I'm worried that he will tell everyone he knows. So far I haven't heard anything from anyone about it, but to me it's nobody's personal business. We were not doing anything illegal, so to me it's a private matter.
How "private" can your business be if you're conducting it in a "public" setting? Apparently you weren't too worried about " privacy" while your hormones got the best of you.
It may not have been " illegal" , but rather an inappropriate place to be groping each other? ( children hang out in parks).
And apparently not too private to air your business on a public forum. Let me ask you a question... Do you think that your behavior was appropriate for adults in a public park?
If you're gonna act like that in public, then own it. Jesus. You're an adult, right?
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Originally Posted by Runninglikethieves
What's it matter if people and your mom find out? Unless you're like 14, which it seems like you are very likely not.
He's a high school senior, and relatively sheltered with pretty protective parents.
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