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I have been seriously dating this girl since last week. We were good friends before we started dating, and we are doing great and almost official. Today, we went to a local park for a hike and took a break at a very nice overlook. We laid down in each other's arms and eventually started putting our hands up each other's shirts. I was not touching her breasts at all, but I had my hand almost at her bra, and she was massaging my upper stomach. When we were still feeling each other up (our shirts were halfway off at this point) I heard a guy's voice shouting "Oh my God!" I quickly scrambled to get up, and to my horror it was somebody that I used to work with at my job and his friend, who I also used to work with. He also had a girl with him. Our initial interaction consisted of mostly stammering and nervous laughing, and the girl he was with could not have looked more uncomfortable. We started chatting awkwardly about his new job and stuff and I just asked how his summer was going, but the 3 of them seemed so freaked out that they "had to go." This guy and I aren't friends, but we have a ton of mutual friends, and our moms talk to each other quite a bit. I am thinking now that this guy will tell all of our mutual friends and his mother what my girlfriend and I were doing, and his friends will all be laughing and ripping me apart, and my mother will be confronting me and questioning me. Do you think that I have a rational concern here, or do you not think that this guy will start telling everybody what he caught us doing? When we worked together, I was single the whole time and he never saw me talk to a girl, so I feel like it's so unusual for him that he will have to preach it to everyone. Additionally, if you were the guy that caught us, what would you think and what would you do?
Why would he care? I see coworkers who are dating kiss at work and I just go about my business.
I have been seriously dating this girl since last week. We were good friends before we started dating, and we are doing great and almost official. Today, we went to a local park for a hike and took a break at a very nice overlook. We laid down in each other's arms and eventually started putting our hands up each other's shirts. I was not touching her breasts at all, but I had my hand almost at her bra, and she was massaging my upper stomach. When we were still feeling each other up (our shirts were halfway off at this point) I heard a guy's voice shouting "Oh my God!" I quickly scrambled to get up, and to my horror it was somebody that I used to work with at my job and his friend, who I also used to work with. He also had a girl with him. Our initial interaction consisted of mostly stammering and nervous laughing, and the girl he was with could not have looked more uncomfortable. We started chatting awkwardly about his new job and stuff and I just asked how his summer was going, but the 3 of them seemed so freaked out that they "had to go." This guy and I aren't friends, but we have a ton of mutual friends, and our moms talk to each other quite a bit. I am thinking now that this guy will tell all of our mutual friends and his mother what my girlfriend and I were doing, and his friends will all be laughing and ripping me apart, and my mother will be confronting me and questioning me. Do you think that I have a rational concern here, or do you not think that this guy will start telling everybody what he caught us doing? When we worked together, I was single the whole time and he never saw me talk to a girl, so I feel like it's so unusual for him that he will have to preach it to everyone. Additionally, if you were the guy that caught us, what would you think and what would you do?
That is really funny, but who cares if he tells anyone? Regardless, for everyone who thinks this was inappropriate there will be another person who will be happy for you (like me )! I have had stuff like that happen when I was a teenager, as an adult I would not care. There is a pretty reasonable chance that the girl with him was uncomfortable because he interupted you. Common sense would be not to interupt lol. Just a couple hours ago I walk past 2 people sitting in front of my work totally making out on a bench ... did I interupt... no. Why because it would be in considerate !
That is really funny, but who cares if he tells anyone? Regardless, for everyone who thinks this was inappropriate there will be another person who will be happy for you (like me )! I have had stuff like that happen when I was a teenager, as an adult I would not care. There is a pretty reasonable chance that the girl with him was uncomfortable because he interupted you. Common sense would be not to interupt lol. Just a couple hours ago I walk past 2 people sitting in front of my work totally making out on a bench ... did I interupt... no. Why because it would be in considerate !
Exactly! If we were nude and having sex it would be different, but all we were doing was rubbing each other while lying down, and only on the stomachs and not on her breasts or private areas. And we were in a very unpopulated area of the woods where it was very unlikely to come across small children. So far it hasn't come back to me, so all I can say is that this is pretty much resolved.
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Lol !!!!
)! I have had stuff like that happen when I was a teenager, as an adult I would not care. There is a pretty reasonable chance that the girl with him was uncomfortable because he interupted you. Common sense would be not to interupt lol. Just a couple hours ago I walk past 2 people sitting in front of my work totally making out on a bench ... did I interupt... no. Why because it would be in considerate 
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