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I have been seriously dating this girl since last week. We were good friends before we started dating, and we are doing great and almost official. Today, we went to a local park for a hike and took a break at a very nice overlook. We laid down in each other's arms and eventually started putting our hands up each other's shirts. I was not touching her breasts at all, but I had my hand almost at her bra, and she was massaging my upper stomach. When we were still feeling each other up (our shirts were halfway off at this point) I heard a guy's voice shouting "Oh my God!" I quickly scrambled to get up, and to my horror it was somebody that I used to work with at my job and his friend, who I also used to work with. He also had a girl with him. Our initial interaction consisted of mostly stammering and nervous laughing, and the girl he was with could not have looked more uncomfortable. We started chatting awkwardly about his new job and stuff and I just asked how his summer was going, but the 3 of them seemed so freaked out that they "had to go." This guy and I aren't friends, but we have a ton of mutual friends, and our moms talk to each other quite a bit. I am thinking now that this guy will tell all of our mutual friends and his mother what my girlfriend and I were doing, and his friends will all be laughing and ripping me apart, and my mother will be confronting me and questioning me. Do you think that I have a rational concern here, or do you not think that this guy will start telling everybody what he caught us doing? When we worked together, I was single the whole time and he never saw me talk to a girl, so I feel like it's so unusual for him that he will have to preach it to everyone. Additionally, if you were the guy that caught us, what would you think and what would you do?
I have been seriously dating this girl since last week. We were good friends before we started dating, and we are doing great and almost official. Today, we went to a local park for a hike and took a break at a very nice overlook. We laid down in each other's arms and eventually started putting our hands up each other's shirts. I was not touching her breasts at all, but I had my hand almost at her bra, and she was massaging my upper stomach. When we were still feeling each other up (our shirts were halfway off at this point) I heard a guy's voice shouting "Oh my God!" I quickly scrambled to get up, and to my horror it was somebody that I used to work with at my job and his friend, who I also used to work with. He also had a girl with him. Our initial interaction consisted of mostly stammering and nervous laughing, and the girl he was with could not have looked more uncomfortable. We started chatting awkwardly about his new job and stuff and I just asked how his summer was going, but the 3 of them seemed so freaked out that they "had to go." This guy and I aren't friends, but we have a ton of mutual friends, and our moms talk to each other quite a bit. I am thinking now that this guy will tell all of our mutual friends and his mother what my girlfriend and I were doing, and his friends will all be laughing and ripping me apart, and my mother will be confronting me and questioning me. Do you think that I have a rational concern here, or do you not think that this guy will start telling everybody what he caught us doing? When we worked together, I was single the whole time and he never saw me talk to a girl, so I feel like it's so unusual for him that he will have to preach it to everyone. Additionally, if you were the guy that caught us, what would you think and what would you do?
He probably will tell a couple people. I guess you're a grown-up, but it's a pretty juvenile thing to do. I mean, good grief, you weren't "making out." You were lying down and had your hands up her shirt.
There are ways to "get some" in public that leave you ready for a quick getaway and don't make you look like two weirdos humping in the park.
We were not even close to having sex. We had our hands up each other's shirts but thats it. No kissing or anything else, just lying there.
No kissing?? Your title says "making out."
Doesn't matter. Just a technicality. It's really disturbing to walk up on people lying down in public like that when you're just trying to go for a walk. Nobody knows what you're really doing, and then for him to realize that he knows you?? Yikes.
Next time just stand behind her "admiring the overlook," okay? Knock off the lying down.
Doesn't matter. Just a technicality. It's really disturbing to walk up on people lying down in public like that when you're just trying to go for a walk. Nobody knows what you're really doing, and then for him to realize that he knows you?? Yikes.
Next time just stand behind her "admiring the overlook," okay? Knock off the lying down.
So if you saw someone you knew lying down like that, you would go and tell the whole world? Even if I was disturbed, if I saw that I'd keep my mouth shut because it's none of my business.
So if you saw someone you knew lying down like that, you would go and tell the whole world? Even if I was disturbed, if I saw that I'd keep my mouth shut because it's none of my business.
I wouldn't tell the whole world, no, because the whole world wouldn't care.
I probably would mention it to a few friends who I thought WOULD care, though.
If you two are going to date and get gropy, you're gonna have to understand the risks of PDA. What y'all did just wasn't very smart.
We were not even close to having sex. We had our hands up each other's shirts but thats it. No kissing or anything else, just lying there.
Doesn't matter. That is what he is going to SAY.
You really missed the point there.
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