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Old 07-02-2016, 01:58 PM
 
Location: Avignon, France
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Actually those ones who are single because men like you think that. Pretty women can be the loneliest women because every guy assumes she's taken.

Or... They're tired of having to run the gauntlet of guys hitting on them. There are a lot of shallow guys out there.... OP comes to mind.
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Old 07-02-2016, 03:03 PM
 
Location: La lune et les étoiles
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Or... They're tired of having to run the gauntlet of guys hitting on them. There are a lot of shallow guys out there.... OP comes to mind.
One of my most beautiful friends is single and has trouble dating. She is a drop dead gorgeous Latina. Beautiful hair, beautiful skin, perfect body, smart, ambitious, kind hearted, funny....I could go one. She is a really great girl but she also has problems with dating. We were actually talking about this a few weeks ago and she was telling me that she doesn't even want to date now and just wants to focus on doing her own thing with family and friends.

Contrary to common belief, a LOT of guys don't necessarily treat beautiful women "better". You have guys that are jealous and possessive who treat beautiful women as if they property or a trophy. Or they are emotionally and mentally abusive.....even physically abusive.
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Old 07-02-2016, 03:05 PM
 
Location: 415->916->602
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Then date a nice girl who treats you with respect.
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Old 07-02-2016, 03:52 PM
 
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One of my most beautiful friends is single and has trouble dating. She is a drop dead gorgeous Latina. Beautiful hair, beautiful skin, perfect body, smart, ambitious, kind hearted, funny....I could go one. She is a really great girl but she also has problems with dating. We were actually talking about this a few weeks ago and she was telling me that she doesn't even want to date now and just wants to focus on doing her own thing with family and friends.

Contrary to common belief, a LOT of guys don't necessarily treat beautiful women "better". You have guys that are jealous and possessive who treat beautiful women as if they property or a trophy. Or they are emotionally and mentally abusive.....even physically abusive.

Hot girls who struggle with dating are no different than great looking guys who struggle with dating. Something else is wrong with them. Physical attractiveness just adds to the other values that a person brings to the table. If someone is attractive in the looks department, but still can't find decent people to date, that means that other things about them are subtracting from their looks.

Beautiful women who end up with guys who treat them poorly have issues around being able to choose decent guys. It's not about their looks and guys treating women who look awesome in a bad manner. It is about their choices and the guys they attract with their personalities and personal issues.
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Old 07-02-2016, 04:03 PM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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Hot girls who struggle with dating are no different than great looking guys who struggle with dating. Something else is wrong with them. Physical attractiveness just adds to the other values that a person brings to the table. If someone is attractive in the looks department, but still can't find decent people to date, that means that other things about them are subtracting from their looks.

Beautiful women who end up with guys who treat them poorly have issues around being able to choose decent guys. It's not about their looks and guys treating women who look awesome in a bad manner. It is about their choices and the guys they attract with their personalities and personal issues.
My sentiments exactly. One can only blame themselves for their own dating problems.
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Old 07-02-2016, 04:21 PM
 
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No. They're pretending to be taken.
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Old 07-02-2016, 04:53 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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No. They're pretending to be taken.

Yeah, specially with the lot you find here on this forum.
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Old 07-02-2016, 06:30 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Yeah, specially with the lot you find here on this forum.
Hey!!!!
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Old 07-02-2016, 06:34 PM
 
Location: So Cal
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Hey!!!!

Not you of course.
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Old 07-02-2016, 06:46 PM
 
Location: Pa
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Not you of course.
Naaah we all have our quirks.
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