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I'm sure this makes me sound like a prude, but to me, 3-4 times a day is vacation/lazy weekend sex. That expectation every day? I've got other stuff to do, man.
I'm definitely a prude but even once a day sounds like a ton of sex to me. Two orgasms per month is enough for me.
I prefer to be the initiator. I like doing it every time. In fact, I like initiating everything in every step of the relationship. Just my personal preference.
I'm sure this makes me sound like a prude, but to me, 3-4 times a day is vacation/lazy weekend sex. That expectation every day? I've got other stuff to do, man.
LOL, 3 or 4 times a day is a bit much. I can see if you do that on the very occasional, but normal day to day relationship, I agree, got other things to do.
Well yeah, I'm employed, so I thought the OP was initiate, that he was disappointed you never initiated--not sex over everything else all day every day...unless he's very quick, sheesh
I thought it was natural for both to initiate. It's a natural drive humans have, not just men.
......isn't it?
Yes! THIS!
What happened to balance? What happened to give and take? Why do people always have to keep track? Why are there so many rules about what couples "should do" (when most don't work anyway)? What happened to doing what comes naturally?
If I had to keep a tally sheet, I'd probably be gone. If I scared a man off because I initiated occasionally, I'd think he has more issues under the surface that I don't want to know about.
Come on...3 or 4 times a day regularly..... the ol' vag would fall off at some point. Let's keep it real here.
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