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If they were cleaner, cheaper, and legal that could be an option for a purely sexual encounter. There are plenty of women that have FWB relationships that have nothing to do with low self esteem. Also the 'F' designates some form of relationship, even if it's just friendly with no long-term commitment.
Not merely physical.
The "F" designates friend. Friends with benefits. I think what you are entertaining is FB. The "F" does not denote any form of relationship other than one would have with a prostitute. The "B" being buddy meaning a person you engage is some activity with.
So your question is not so much should you eff this woman in-spite of the fact you find her fat and ugly but that she might also be unstable?
How do feel about having a relationship down the line with a woman you like but who had FWB's with guys she thought were ugly and she was not attracted to but she just wanted to get laid?
You're trying to get something out of what is really nothing. The fact that she called the cops on 3 different guys is a giant red flag. Do you really believe a plain unattractive woman is going to be stalked and harassed by 3 different men? Somethings bad here. Run.
I am decent looking, not drop down gorgeous. I don't even wear makeup and most days don't even care if my clothes match. Something about my personality attracts narcissistic, controlling men with some variation of crazy.
I have two active protection orders against men. One being a guy from high school that stalked me for years. Like a shadow. I went no where without his car following me. And we did not even date!
The second being my sons father that tried killing me so he could get out of child support, by killing me and getting custody of the child. The child witnessed the event. The fact that the possibility of prison never crossed his mind, proves just how mentally unstable he is.
No, it's just something for him to think about. Does he want to be the kind of person that he would not want to be with if he found out the other person had done the same thing he is thinking about doing?
1. The cop issue would worry me. Who seriously has to call the police on three entirely different guys for "stalking," unless that person is a celebrity? I would be VERY afraid she'd pull some sort of very weird thing on me. I just wouldn't want to go there.
2. If you "go a few rounds with her" when she pretty obviously wants it to be more than that, well, combine that with someone who calls the cops all the time and...I don't know. Are you sure, hon?
Honestly, and don't think I'm gross saying this, but God gave you two hands for a reason. One is for the mouse. You don't need to hit this and I don't know why you're considering it. The red flags are flying so high they're practically whipping off their own poles from the wind up there.
1. The cop issue would worry me. Who seriously has to call the police on three entirely different guys for "stalking," unless that person is a celebrity? I would be VERY afraid she'd pull some sort of very weird thing on me. I just wouldn't want to go there.
2. If you "go a few rounds with her" when she pretty obviously wants it to be more than that, well, combine that with someone who calls the cops all the time and...I don't know. Are you sure, hon?
Honestly, and don't think I'm gross saying this, but God gave you two hands for a reason. One is for the mouse. You don't need to hit this and I don't know why you're considering it. The red flags are flying so high they're practically whipping off their own poles from the wind up there.
Has it occurred to anyone that this woman is probably that GOOD in bed that guys get all sprung and stalk?
Has it occurred to anyone that this woman is probably that GOOD in bed that guys get all sprung and stalk?
Well, I have never in my life known anyone, male or female, who was so good in bed a restraining order was required to keep the exes away, in repeating fashion.
But perhaps she's a gymnast or something.
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