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You know whats going on and you know what you're doing is not right. If you want to get with her, you're gonna have to wait and let her get her act together. If not, you're headed for turbulent times and heartbreak. Find someone else that's truly available and tell her when shes done with her cluster of a situation, you'd be interested in a relationship with her. Maybe that will motivate her to get it together.
You are filling in the empty spot where her BF should be, offering her comfort and support that she's not getting from her current relationship. It's not an attraction to you but filling a void in her life. I would steer very clear of this situation.
Yesterday was a close friends birthday. She had to work until midnight and I agreed to go out to dinner and celebrated her birthday with her. Unfortunately she did not get home until 2 am and asked if I could come over and spend some time with her. I agreed to and we decided to put on some Netflix and watch a TV series. I put my arm around her and thought nothing of it, until she enclosed her hand in mine and rested her head on my shoulder. In the past I asked if she had feelings and she said no. She has always said I'm a romantic guy and her boyfriend is nothing like the way I am, as well as the fact that she has a kid and it's a messy situation. I would like some feedback if possible, could she be interested or was this all just friendly cuddling and nothing more?
She also mentioned she trusts me with her life and asks for back massages and enjoys them. Thank you!
Things might be different if she didn't have a bloke already but personally I wouldnt read too much into this mate.
She's using you and putting you in a crappy position. It doesn't matter if she has feelings; she's not available, in any way.
⬆⬆⬆Ditto⬆⬆⬆ If you are interested, tell her you aren't available for snuggles and massages until she can commit to you only. It sounds like she is a tease.
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