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Old 01-25-2017, 12:08 PM
 
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Hope your day won't be too long today. Rest well tonight and thanks for joining me for the music.

He just texted me this. (I had a long day yesterday and was tired). "Thanks for joining me"... wtf?
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Old 01-25-2017, 12:12 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Hope your day won't be too long today. Rest well tonight and thanks for joining me for the music.

He just texted me this. (I had a long day yesterday and was tired). "Thanks for joining me"... wtf?
Didn't you do some music/Dj stuff? If he would have texted "Thanks for the ride" instead you would be offended and be confirmed he only wants sex from you.
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Old 01-25-2017, 12:14 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Hope your day won't be too long today. Rest well tonight and thanks for joining me for the music.

He just texted me this. (I had a long day yesterday and was tired). "Thanks for joining me"... wtf?
I really, really REALLY don't understand why you are SO critical of this guy.

You skipped several steps and are having sex without an emotional bond, but you won't be specific and communicate your TRUE desires.

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Old 01-25-2017, 12:14 PM
 
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Didn't you do some music/Dj stuff? If he would have texted "Thanks for the ride" instead you would be offended and be confirmed he only wants sex from you.
I guess I am annoyed he thanked me.
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Old 01-25-2017, 12:20 PM
 
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LOL! Girl leave this dude alone. I feel so sorry for this guy. You are clearly one of those women who expect the man to read her mind!

You wanted him to communicate with you more - show you he's thinking about you - and he does, and now you're picking the wording apart. He can't win with you.
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Old 01-25-2017, 12:25 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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LOL! Girl leave this dude alone. I feel so sorry for this guy. You are clearly one of those women who expect the man to read her mind!

You wanted him to communicate with you more - show you he's thinking about you - and he does, and now you're picking the wording apart. He can't win with you.
I agree.

You SOUND like you are too hard to please, OP. Please consider whether you'd hold up to the same standards.
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Old 01-25-2017, 12:30 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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I agree.

You SOUND like you are too hard to please, OP. Please consider whether you'd hold up to the same standards.
she doesn't initiate contact and she doesn't kiss him on the lips either, soooo.... NOPE.


I agree with Tina - I feel bad for the guy. Once he is finished with his school and has more time to think, he might realize he doesn't need an undecisive woman in his life - who doesn't ever text first, only kisses when they have sex and no kisses on the lips afterwards
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Old 01-25-2017, 01:40 PM
 
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Didn't you do some music/Dj stuff? If he would have texted "Thanks for the ride" instead you would be offended and be confirmed he only wants sex from you.
LOLOLOL.

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she doesn't initiate contact and she doesn't kiss him on the lips either, soooo.... NOPE.


I agree with Tina - I feel bad for the guy. Once he is finished with his school and has more time to think, he might realize he doesn't need an undecisive woman in his life - who doesn't ever text first, only kisses when they have sex and no kisses on the lips afterwards
Wow. Is that what the OP is? Ya now I feel sorry for the guy. OP, the problem is YOU not him. Leave the guy alone, unless you want to get laid that night.

Honestly it's looking more now to me that you are using him for sex. Like, really.
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Old 01-25-2017, 01:48 PM
 
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Ok, all of you here thank you for your help so far but stop it. I wish I was using him, then I wouldn't have to worry about being it the other way around.

The fact that he texted is nice but that is about it. The next one I can expect on Friday (in two days), and then an invitation to go out for drinks and head to his apartment. Not too exciting...
Kiss on the lips? Actually, I did kiss him on the lips this morning (like a peck on the lips but oh well). On the way out, he kissed me multiple times on the cheek and gave me a big hug. He makes it a point (nonverbally) not to want to kiss me on the lips.
The same weird thing when he tried to push me off his chest. But then realized what he did and kissed me all over my face and hair for five minutes.
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Old 01-25-2017, 01:51 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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Why don't YOU text him first, why do you always wait?
Kisses multiple times on the way out and a hug? That sounds great. That's more affection than a lot of guys give. I got a quick peck on the lips this morning and a hug. Not for one moment did I think this is less or better than on the cheek.
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