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Old 05-22-2017, 12:47 PM
 
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2 days ago I posted that I had found porn and some very inappropriate conservations with male friends on my BFs computer. Yes I did snoop. I tried to tell myself this was normal as all guys watch porn. Moreover I did not see any glirtatious conversations with women so I told myself not to worry.

Yesterday I found he has a profile on a website to meet foreign Russian women. I am so sad. I logged in and he has not messaged any of them and does not have any prpfile up. I guess he created it just to browse. He is now on a business trip and I am paranoid he will cheat on me. Is this a bad sign? Should I just get out now?

 
Old 05-22-2017, 12:49 PM
 
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Yes and yes.
 
Old 05-22-2017, 12:50 PM
 
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Do you really need random strangers on a public forum to tell you how to make choices in your life?
If you are unhappy and the relationship cannot be fixed then leave.
If you want to continue living the way you currently are then do nothing.
 
Old 05-22-2017, 12:51 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Yes.
Yes.
 
Old 05-22-2017, 12:51 PM
 
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If it were me, and this were a real situation, I'd run away from a relationship with a guy who threw his money at those "Russian women" sites.

Oh, and if this is real, please take some time to work on yourself before getting into another relationship.
 
Old 05-22-2017, 12:53 PM
 
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2 days ago I posted that I had found porn and some very inappropriate conservations with male friends on my BFs computer. Yes I did snoop. I tried to tell myself this was normal as all guys watch porn. Moreover I did not see any glirtatious conversations with women so I told myself not to worry.

Yesterday I found he has a profile on a website to meet foreign Russian women. I am so sad. I logged in and he has not messaged any of them and does not have any prpfile up. I guess he created it just to browse. He is now on a business trip and I am paranoid he will cheat on me. Is this a bad sign? Should I just get out now?
This is a conversation you need to have with him not us. With that said, if you don't trust each other, then your relationship is on borrowed time anyway.
 
Old 05-22-2017, 12:56 PM
 
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There REALLY are good & true solid men out there.. this guy of yours may not fit the profile you are looking for.
 
Old 05-22-2017, 12:56 PM
 
Location: Middle America
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Yes, a partner browsing for mail order brides is a bad sign for a relationship.
 
Old 05-22-2017, 12:57 PM
 
Location: 🇬🇧 In jolly old London! 🇬🇧
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Originally Posted by anettehasquestions View Post
2 days ago I posted that I had found porn and some very inappropriate conservations with male friends on my BFs computer. Yes I did snoop. I tried to tell myself this was normal as all guys watch porn. Moreover I did not see any glirtatious conversations with women so I told myself not to worry.

Yesterday I found he has a profile on a website to meet foreign Russian women. I am so sad. I logged in and he has not messaged any of them and does not have any prpfile up. I guess he created it just to browse. He is now on a business trip and I am paranoid he will cheat on me. Is this a bad sign? Should I just get out now?
With all the snooping and finding this and that you've already convinced yourself to get out or looking for a reason to do so it seems so why ask us?.

If that's what you want then do it
 
Old 05-22-2017, 12:58 PM
 
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Yes I did snoop
Cut him loose so he can find someone who won't be a snoop.
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