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So this girl I have hung out , oh 4-5 times have always came to my place. Ive invited her every time and she lives 20 minutes away and last week said "Why don't you ever wanna come to my place?"
I said to her "well you never invite me" and then she went on about how I acted like I never had interest coming to her place (I dont know where she got that from!),Anyway I told her I am interested, she just had to invite me down!!
My question is to you all
Is it better, as a guy, to let her invite me over OR sort of say "Hey how about I come over Saturday?"
I feel like the second choice is kind of demanding maybe? I mean it is HER place after all..............
Last edited by kylehends; 05-29-2017 at 04:36 PM..
So this girl I have hung out , oh 4-5 times have always came to my place. Ive invited her every time and she lives 20 minutes away and last week said "Why don't you ever wanna come to my place?"
I said to her "well you never invite me" and then she went on about how I acted like I never had interest coming to her place (I dont know where she got that from!),Anyway I told her I am interested, she just had to invite me down!!
My question is to you all
Is it better, as a guy, to let her invite me over OR sort of say "Hey how about I come over Saturday?"
I feel like the second choice is kind of demanding maybe? I mean it is HER place after all..............
Well, me personally I don't want anyone just telling me they are coming. But this is about y'all. She doesn't know how to express herself very well, imo. She wanted you to read her mind.
So, for her, apparently she is in her way telling you she wants you to express an interest in going. I think the way you phrased it is perfect. Would you like for me to come hang out with you on Saturday? Or suggest specific plans over there. IDK what y'all do.
Just ask her if it's okay if you stop by her place on XXX day. It shows interest, it's not demanding, and it gives her a chance to refuse if she wants to.
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