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When l was in my 30s it was 20s girls that loved me the most, and l can tell ya it had nothing to do with daddy or security or any of the other garbage. They just liked me , a wholeeee lot.
Ex w told me later hell yeah 20s girls love guys in their 30s , and yep l can vouch for that.
She was in her 20s when we got hitched.
l also think they do like him a bit more matured to than guys their age
I'm with you man. Women my age have different priorities. They had their fun banging who knows how many guys when they were hot and now that they are getting older they are in lock down mode. Which is okay its just that i don't meet their requirement, i'm still finishing my PHD and those women want stability NOW. Young women on the other hand in early 20s are much more attractive and only want FUN. They will ONS a guy and not think twice about it.
As for how to attract them, get in good shape, act immature, and say your 29 😎
Say what!? PHD in what, I wonder. Best of luck to you...
Really? At age 37 I married my 22 y.o. girlfriend. At the Fairfax Courthouse in fact. We have successful careers, a beautiful family, and will be celebrating our 20th anniversary next month.
Never say never.
So you're saying there's a chance? Awesome. I don't like women my age at all (in my current city) because they haven't taken care of themselves. Its different in larger cities and I love those women, but in middle America USA, it sucks. I can still date younger because I look younger, the problem is, there's a huge lack of single women between 30-40 here because they all get married in their mid-20's. So frustrating for the middle aged man.
So you're saying there's a chance? Awesome. I don't like women my age at all (in my current city) because they haven't taken care of themselves. Its different in larger cities and I love those women, but in middle America USA, it sucks. I can still date younger because I look younger, the problem is, there's a huge lack of single women between 30-40 here because they all get married in their mid-20's. So frustrating for the middle aged man.
There are a lot of divorced women in the 40's. Some wait for the kids to go off to college, leave the nest, etc then get divorced. I have heard this story many times. They have kids in their 20's, and get divorced in their late 30's or 40's. I won't date women my own age. They just seem so old to me, and I can't get past that.
So you're saying there's a chance? Awesome. I don't like women my age at all (in my current city) because they haven't taken care of themselves. Its different in larger cities and I love those women, but in middle America USA, it sucks. I can still date younger because I look younger, the problem is, there's a huge lack of single women between 30-40 here because they all get married in their mid-20's. So frustrating for the middle aged man.
You need to expand your horizons in multiple ways bro you're like me you'll never find what you want in your area. I'm looking into moving out west actually, I can't just yet though.
On EHarmony I talk to a wonderful Chinese lady just approaching her late 20's that's out in California.. she's cool af, she likes Star Wars, Game of Thrones, hiking, nature, video games, different kinds of music, cute, no kids... I could totally see something happening down the road possibly. Although, she doesn't know about my very average salary yet lol.
There are a lot of divorced women in the 40's. Some wait for the kids to go off to college, leave the nest, etc then get divorced. I have heard this story many times. They have kids in their 20's, and get divorced in their late 30's or 40's. I won't date women my own age. They just seem so old to me, and I can't get past that.
Well, I would still like a kid. Pus, gotta find a woman in her 40's who keeps herself in shape and isn't a sun goddess.
What's this talk of women looking over the hill and out of shape in their 40s. And "old". Wth. Get real. I was born in the 70s I'm not old. I'm in better, stronger condition now in my 40s than in my 20s. Let's stop generalizing here.
I've dated older and younger. If you chase someone just because of age I think there's something wrong.
I dated people because of who they were regardless of their age, not because of it.
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Originally Posted by riaelise
What's this talk of women looking over the hill and out of shape in their 40s. And "old". Wth. Get real. I was born in the 70s I'm not old. I'm in better, stronger condition now in my 40s than in my 20s. Let's stop generalizing here.
Hear, hear! Let's hear it for the older ladies. Many just get stronger and more lovely.
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