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Has anyone here ever had only one date with a person, and that person then tried to immediately start drama over something, like picking a fight? Is that normal behavior after one date?
I kinda did that to a chick once that clearly used a photo that was 10 years old and 75lbs ago back when internet dating was young and not everybody had 10,000 selfies scattered across social media.
Not really "drama", but I wasn't happy... I'm sure you can imagine.
I kinda did that to a chick once that clearly used a photo that was 10 years old and 75lbs ago back when internet dating was young and not everybody had 10,000 selfies scattered across social media.
Not really "drama", but I wasn't happy... I'm sure you can imagine.
No... Just got really sour for the rest of the night and I guess pretty snide from what she told me later in an email (I wear my feelings on the tip of my tongue so I'm not usually too hard to figure out). I should have been a man and just walked out. I mostly didn't because I'm just not THAT mean (without fully realizing I had every reason to be), plus I was living in a really small town at the time so I drove like an hour and a half to get there for a dinner date and we met IN the restaurant so I wanted to eat. Plus the place was supposed to be really good, according to her, which it was not... which also pissed me off.
I didn't even tell her off in the email later. I wasn't mad anymore and it just seemed pointless to do it by then since I was clearly not going back anyhow. Let her go catfish some other dude that isn't as nice as I am and let him do it. I've also gotta think I wasn't the first guy to take the bait and she probably HAD been told off before. No one puts up a picture that looks not a damn thing like them without knowing it. I even wore the same clothes as my photos to first dates JUST to put that BS to sleep immediately from my side of the aisle.
I think it's dishonest to put up an old photograph.
I would not walk out on the date though, I'd give it about two hours.
I've had a couple of dates that ended "early" and I knew why. I believe the men were looking for a sexual type of relationship or excitement, and I don't give off those vibes. One guy told a friend of mine he wanted someone "exciting". Which is a red flag that someone doesn't already have a fulfilling life on their own.
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