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Old 08-17-2017, 09:43 PM
 
Location: Seattle,WA
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Since february 2014 i have been with this woman on and off. We were together until i moved from LA to Seattle in july 2015. After i moved away the relationship went south.

When i lived in LA and lived with my parents this woman asked me to pay for dinners out,vacations,movies and messages. My parents had to bail me out of credit card debt then.

This woman still lives in the LA area and lives with her parents. Back in march 2014 this woman purchased a brand new $38,000 honda accord V6 EX with payments. In july 2017 she traded in her 2014 honda accord for a 2018 Honda pilot.

This woman claims to have a job caring for mentally retarded adults for 40 hours per week. How can someone with that type of job afford $38,000 new cars every couple years?

Her reasoning for having me pay for everything when i lived in LA is she said she had no money. Then how come she ate sushi dinners out every night with her friends and went to 3 movies per week and paid her own way with her friends??

Something is fishy to me.

Two years ago this woman wanted to move into my seattle apartment and pay me no rent per month. I was smart enough to tell her NO!!

For almost a year i broke up with her. As of a month ago we are trying to get back together.

She said she has no money to pay for an airticket from LA to Seattle even though she has a fulltime job as she claims.

Currently im a 36 year old white male with aspergers and unemployed. I wonder if this woman is taking advantage of because of my disabilites??

Unfortunately i mailed her southwest airlines giftcards to help her pay for a trip to seattle.

She now wants me to pay for a towncar taxicab for $100 to pick her up from work to take her to the airport. I told her no i cant afford the towncar or uber/lyft because i dont have a job.

Rather than syphasize with me she called me an asshull. She also said im not acting like a man because i wont pay for her airport transportation.

First of all if she has a fulltime job,lives with her parents at age 35,can afford to eat out with her friends and can afford to go to the movies,why can she not afford the airport transportation??

With my aspergers i struggle to find jobs. Unable to afford a car now.

Many people have told me i should block this womans phone number.
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Old 08-17-2017, 09:47 PM
 
Location: Seattle,WA
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This woman also told me that if i ever get her pregnant she would never want me or my parents to meet the baby. She said that if i got her pregnant she would stop talking to me.
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Old 08-17-2017, 09:48 PM
 
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You don't need this woman in your life.
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Old 08-17-2017, 09:50 PM
 
Location: Seattle,WA
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My one friend who lives in LA says that if i dump this woman because i have aspergers i will never find someone to love me ever again.
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Old 08-17-2017, 09:52 PM
 
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My one friend who lives in LA says that if i dump this woman because i have aspergers i will never find someone to love me ever again.
1.) That is not true.
2.) It would be better to be alone than to be stuck with someone who is only using you.
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Old 08-17-2017, 09:54 PM
 
Location: Seattle,WA
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1.) That is not true.
2.) It would be better to be alone than to be stuck with someone who is only using you.
I have trouble telling if this woman really loves me or is lying to me only to use me.
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Old 08-17-2017, 09:54 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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My one friend who lives in LA says that if i dump this woman because i have aspergers i will never find someone to love me ever again.
This woman doesn't love you. So love yourself enough to stop allowing her to walk all over you.
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Old 08-17-2017, 09:56 PM
 
Location: Seattle,WA
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This woman doesn't love you. So love yourself enough to stop allowing her to walk all over you.
How can you tell that she doesnt love me?? She calls me and says i love you babe to me on the phone. Everytime i see her inperson she gives me a big hug and kiss and says to me i love you.
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Old 08-17-2017, 10:05 PM
 
Location: California side of the Sierras
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How can you tell that she doesnt love me?? She calls me and says i love you babe to me on the phone. Everytime i see her inperson she gives me a big hug and kiss and says to me i love you.
Because I read what you have written.

It's easy to say "I love you". Anyone can say that. But when actions don't match words, it's obvious the words are not true.
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Old 08-17-2017, 10:13 PM
 
Location: sumter
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If you have to ask this question in the first place, then I believe you know the answer.
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