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Old 08-28-2011, 11:13 PM
 
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I have a guy friend that I've been hooking up with for a little while on the sly. None of the rest of the our friends know that we've been hooking up. We're both single. Anyway, after hanging out today with all our friends in a large group, he gives me a big hug as I'm leaving and whispers, "I'll see you when I see you".

In this context, I have no idea what he means. Does anyone know?
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:16 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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I won't make any effort to actually make it happen.

Or I'll make an effort when I want some and no other options are available.

Sorry.

BTW, if a guy EVER said that to me... he would NEVER "see" me...
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:16 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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It means: don't get any ideas you're entitled to any of my time or regular calls. I'll call you when I get horny.
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:17 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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BTW, if a guy EVER said that to me... he would NEVER "see" me...
No kiddin'!
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:18 PM
 
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It means "it is what it is" he has the power and he'll call u when he wants some ass...kinda like that "morning after" thread.
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:19 PM
 
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If he meant what you all are saying, why not just say "bye" and leave it at that. Why tack the rest of the sentence on? Or just say he's busy this week or for a while? It just seems so enigmatic. Do you think he's trying to not hurt my feelings? or leave the door open in case he "wants some"?
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:21 PM
 
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Well you know him better than us virtual ppl so you should know but I would think of it as "don't call me I'll call you" men like to hit it then quit it...maybe he terminated your position lol..he's probably downsizing j/k! Hey in life you need to be direct call him and ask him what the hell he meant...I used to question the BS when I was younger but now I just gotta know and I don't hold my tongue. Like if I'm up late on a messageboard getting advice it'd mean it's REALLY bothering me so I'd call the a-hole so I can sleep in peace..nothing like getting confusion off your chest!
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:23 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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If he meant what you all are saying, why not just say "bye" and leave it at that. Why tack the rest of the sentence on? Or just say he's busy this week or for a while? It just seems so enigmatic.
Because he's afraid you might get other ideas!

On a different note, generally it may mean nothing at all... It could be just a playful way of talking. Under the circumstances, though, I'm leaning more toward the first option.
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:24 PM
 
Location: New Zealand and Australia
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chit we have another over analyzer
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Old 08-28-2011, 11:24 PM
 
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He's stringing you along. He's letting you know the possibility is still there, but there's no solid plan.
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