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Old 01-23-2018, 05:28 PM
 
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Originally Posted by Chriz Brown View Post
Exactly.

You're reading my mind today!
So then WAS it only one date?

She asked you out. What did you answer?
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Old 01-23-2018, 05:29 PM
 
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Why do you feel the need to be passive aggressive with them? Can't you just say what you're thinking?
Are you always 100% honest with everyone you deal with?

I know the answer is "no" because if you say "yes" you are lying.

Would you tell someone their baby is ugly? I really don't understand your question. We are all adults here and we know how the world works.
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Old 01-23-2018, 05:30 PM
 
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So then WAS it only one date?

She asked you out. What did you answer?
Look at the date this thread was created and compare it to today's date. You will get your answer.
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Old 01-23-2018, 05:30 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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In addition to which, "most girls drop off on their own by now." You know, like barnacles.
Seriously, quit clutching the pearls, you know he meant typically they lose interest so he doesn’t have to dump them.
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Old 01-23-2018, 05:33 PM
 
Location: The Jerz (NJ)
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Men telling other men to be more manly to get dates but then saying it's okay to wuss out of having an honest conversation with the woman about where you see the relationship going... I love it.
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Old 01-23-2018, 05:37 PM
 
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Look at the date this thread was created and compare it to today's date. You will get your answer.
1. Yeah nope. What you responded to her is not included in the date of your first post. Or anywhere in the post.
2. What is it with you and the silly peek a boo answers instead of just giving an answer? No wonder she was confused - or, I guess she was. You may want to work on that. Grownups give answers when people ask questions. It is not weird at all, IMO, given this style, that she had no reason to clearly or even vaguely know you didn't want to go out again.

I am sure by now she has a Valentine's Day date and has forgotten all about it so things have worked out for everyone. Good luck in the future.
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Old 01-23-2018, 05:40 PM
 
Location: Brentwood, Tennessee
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Are you always 100% honest with everyone you deal with?

I know the answer is "no" because if you say "yes" you are lying.

Would you tell someone their baby is ugly? I really don't understand your question. We are all adults here and we know how the world works.
Nice deflection.

It's because you don't go out with THAT many girls, isn't it?

So "women" who do this, in your example earlier that I asked about, really is only this one woman, right??
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Old 01-23-2018, 05:40 PM
 
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Men telling other men to be more manly to get dates but then saying it's okay to wuss out of having an honest conversation with the woman about where you see the relationship going... I love it.
You forgot the irony v the constant refrain of "Why don't women do the asking? We would loooooove that! It would be a win!"

ONE chick asks ONE guy out for real and it is even a girl the guy liked enough to go out with in the first place and look at him run run run like the wind.

As this place. (chuckle)
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Old 01-23-2018, 05:52 PM
 
Location: Huntersville/Charlotte, NC and Washington, DC
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You forgot the irony v the constant refrain of "Why don't women do the asking? We would loooooove that! It would be a win!"

ONE chick asks ONE guy out for real and it is even a girl the guy liked enough to go out with in the first place and look at him run run run like the wind.

As this place. (chuckle)
If you are going to use ONE case of why women shouldn’t face their fears and ask out guys, you have bigger problems than having to ask out a dude. Plenty of women pull the same when we ask them out. I know.
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Old 01-23-2018, 06:20 PM
 
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If you are going to use ONE case of why women shouldn’t face their fears and ask out guys, you have bigger problems than having to ask out a dude. Plenty of women pull the same when we ask them out. I know.
Pull what stuff, say they don't want a commitment after the first date? I don't quite get what you're saying.

I don't have the problem you mention.

I'll wait to see if the OP answers the questions I asked.
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