Girl wants commitment after one date? (woman, love, 2013, different)

[Chriz Brown]

Just getting some thoughts since this has never happened to me before. I went on a first date last night that went very well. We made out at the end, but didn't have sex. There was no extra communication that night after we said goodbye, but today she texted me 8 times and is already planning our next two dates.

I told her I'm pretty busy for the holidays but might be free for one of the dates.

Anyone had this happen? Is she really expecting instant commitment already lol?

[elnina]

She is interested to see you again, and planning next dates. Are you complaining?
Did she said she wants commitment? That's not the same...

[wowowee]

LOL, no. She just likes to hang out with you, I guess.

[303Guy]

Hey, she's into you. Don't let her get away! And yes, it has happened to me and she's still with me. She says I am the love of her life.

[jgn2013]

Just roll with it and see what happens. If she seems like a nice woman, go out with her and enjoy the ride. You don't really have anything to lose.

[elnina]

Originally Posted by jgn2013

Just roll with it and see what happens. If she seems like a nice woman, go out with her and enjoy the ride. You don't really have anything to lose.

Some people like to kill nice things in their life by over-analyzing everything...

[hawaiiancoconut]

I didn't read anything that would indicate shes pushing for relatioship commitment.

I agree, in "just roll with it".

Good Luck, and may the force be with you

[Chriz Brown]

Originally Posted by elnina

Some people like to kill nice things in their life by over-analyzing everything...

Can't even ask a question without people getting hyper judgmental lol.

Sheesh..

Sometimes when you experience something different or new you get curious. Is that a crime?

[hawaiiancoconut]

Originally Posted by Chriz Brown

Can't even ask a question without people getting hyper judgmental lol.

Sheesh..

Sometimes when you experience something different or new you get curious. Is that a crime?

If youre that curious why not just ask her? Whats wrong with asking, guy?

[The Dissenter]

Originally Posted by Chriz Brown

Just getting some thoughts since this has never happened to me before. I went on a first date last night that went very well. We made out at the end, but didn't have sex. There was no extra communication that night after we said goodbye, but today she texted me 8 times and is already planning our next two dates.

I told her I'm pretty busy for the holidays but might be free for one of the dates.

Anyone had this happen? Is she really expecting instant commitment already lol?

8 times in one day and already planning 2 dates? Yikes. Could be a master stage 5 clinger, if you choose to proceed, stay close to the eject button. I would be creeped out here btw.