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Old 12-26-2017, 01:34 AM
 
Location: Scottsdale, AZ
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I like sober sex when its with someone i actually care bout but if its its just a sexual relationship with a attractive person but you don't want a relationship sometimes being buzzed or drunk makes it feel better to me.
I had a fb that told me once it was imperative that she gets drunk before sex. Unbeknownst to me at the time, she was suffering from chronic anxiety

That bottle of Bacardi 151 sure did the trick Lol

 
Old 12-26-2017, 01:56 AM
 
Location: Kaliforneea
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strongly disagree, and maybe it is dependant if the subject is male or female.

I will admit *some women* would rather have a drink than no drinks.


2 drinks, maybe enhancement of euphoria, release of inhibitions, reduced judgement & forethought of consequences
4 drinks, don't really care, but this place sure is great
6 drinks, too drunk to ****
8 drinks, wake up in jail cell, where's my pants, how did I get this black eye? etc

this calls for a Country song: I Went 10 Rounds with Jose Cuervo:


https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_Z16jVKrk2s
 
Old 12-26-2017, 05:32 AM
 
Location: New Yawk
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When my kids were tiny, I used to need a couple of drinks to transition out of Mommy Mode, if sex was imminent. It was tough to from spending 16 hours/day on high alert with three little sets of hands pawing at me at every moment, to wanton harlotry.
 
Old 12-26-2017, 06:03 AM
 
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It can help if you have performance anxiety and want to add some aggression to the act, but too much is bad for performance.
 
Old 12-26-2017, 06:51 AM
 
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Pffft. 2 pages and no one had said the fact that alcohols are aphrodisiacs? I know I googled, LOL. And also from experience, I made myself a screwdriver. Boy, I KNOW then why it's called that. LOL.

I am not an alcoholic though so maybe that's why it has that effect on me. Who knows?
 
Old 12-26-2017, 06:54 AM
 
Location: Portsmouth, VA
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personal preference if you feel that way.
 
Old 12-26-2017, 06:59 AM
 
Location: RI, MA, VT, WI, IL, CA, IN (that one sucked), KY
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It might improve things for people who have a hard time getting past inhibitions otherwise. For those who don't have that barrier, it may create more issues than it solves.


This, it is the removal of inhibitions. Many people have them. They get in the way of enjoyment.
 
Old 12-26-2017, 07:00 AM
 
Location: Reno, NV
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The OP did say "sometimes." And yes, "drunk" sex is sometimes better than sober sex.


Aside from lowering inhibitions, which really isn't a problem for us, sex with a buzz (not outright drunk) can sometimes have advantages:
- it focuses your attention, as your mind isn't running off in unwanted directions, and that can lead to more reliable - and intense - orgasms
- it can add a floaty feeling, making sex seem otherworldly and ethereal, which may be better, or at least it is a delightful variant
- it can delay orgasm, allowing for a greater buildup of sexual tension before it's released


Either way, sex is good, and variety is good - this is just one more great way to add variety.

Last edited by TaoistDude; 12-26-2017 at 07:09 AM..
 
Old 12-26-2017, 07:04 AM
 
Location: NNJ
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A few drinks for fun... sure!

but drunk? nah... not really interested... (as a I guy, I wouldn't want to risk it legally as well)

Most of my girl friends say they don't like it when the guy is drunk. They can't get it up.. no stamina... can't find their way.. no fun.
 
Old 12-26-2017, 08:06 AM
 
Location: Columbia SC
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Some women I have been with need to use alcohol to lower their inhibitions, not necessarily to engage in sex, but to allow themselves to be less inhibited to express how aroused they are. I don't drink.
That has been my experience but I drink......LOL
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