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I like sober sex when its with someone i actually care bout but if its its just a sexual relationship with a attractive person but you don't want a relationship sometimes being buzzed or drunk makes it feel better to me.
I had a fb that told me once it was imperative that she gets drunk before sex. Unbeknownst to me at the time, she was suffering from chronic anxiety
strongly disagree, and maybe it is dependant if the subject is male or female.
I will admit *some women* would rather have a drink than no drinks.
2 drinks, maybe enhancement of euphoria, release of inhibitions, reduced judgement & forethought of consequences
4 drinks, don't really care, but this place sure is great
6 drinks, too drunk to ****
8 drinks, wake up in jail cell, where's my pants, how did I get this black eye? etc
this calls for a Country song: I Went 10 Rounds with Jose Cuervo:
When my kids were tiny, I used to need a couple of drinks to transition out of Mommy Mode, if sex was imminent. It was tough to from spending 16 hours/day on high alert with three little sets of hands pawing at me at every moment, to wanton harlotry.
Pffft. 2 pages and no one had said the fact that alcohols are aphrodisiacs? I know I googled, LOL. And also from experience, I made myself a screwdriver. Boy, I KNOW then why it's called that. LOL.
I am not an alcoholic though so maybe that's why it has that effect on me. Who knows?
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It might improve things for people who have a hard time getting past inhibitions otherwise. For those who don't have that barrier, it may create more issues than it solves.
This, it is the removal of inhibitions. Many people have them. They get in the way of enjoyment.
The OP did say "sometimes." And yes, "drunk" sex is sometimes better than sober sex.
Aside from lowering inhibitions, which really isn't a problem for us, sex with a buzz (not outright drunk) can sometimes have advantages:
- it focuses your attention, as your mind isn't running off in unwanted directions, and that can lead to more reliable - and intense - orgasms
- it can add a floaty feeling, making sex seem otherworldly and ethereal, which may be better, or at least it is a delightful variant
- it can delay orgasm, allowing for a greater buildup of sexual tension before it's released
Either way, sex is good, and variety is good - this is just one more great way to add variety.
Last edited by TaoistDude; 12-26-2017 at 07:09 AM..
Some women I have been with need to use alcohol to lower their inhibitions, not necessarily to engage in sex, but to allow themselves to be less inhibited to express how aroused they are. I don't drink.
That has been my experience but I drink......LOL
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