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Women (generally speaking) dont go out of their way to find men, they let men come to them, so unless you approach theyre not gonna care because chances are they have a dozen orbiters already.
If you want to get better with women, go to redpill on reddit and ditch your self limiting beliefs.
Are you telling the women you meet/potential dating prospects that you’re a virgin? There’s no need to divulge this information, at least not early on during the first few dates and absolutely not when you first start talking. And most women aren’t going to come out and ask you if you’re still a virgin, so you don’t have to worry about lying to them and saying you aren’t. Unless you’re a teenager still, which a lot 19-20 year olds are still virgins, so it’s not out of the ordinary. If you’re older than that, they’re most likely going to assume that you’re not a virgin, anyway. If they do ask how many sexual partners you’ve had, give them a smirk and say something like “I don’t kiss and tell!”.
There’s no need to divulge this information. It’s weird if you feel the need to vent about it to dates/potential dating prospects about it. If you need to vent about it, do it to your friends or people online. Not your dates. If it’s a matter of being afraid of not knowing where the “Hole” is or how to put on a condom, there’s literally non-pornagraphic pictorials and “instructions” all over the Internet.
You're not too ugly or weird. You just lack confidence and social skills.
I must agree, this is 99% of the issue with men I know who can not find a mate.
As to the OP: "Can a negative reputation significantly limit a man's ability to attract women?"
No. I do not believe so.
My father was abusive of women, he had a lot of fun dating and he went through 8 wives. In each of his marriages, the wife finally got tired of being abused, so they divorced him. But even with that reputation, he would be dating again immediately.
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Originally Posted by stockwiz
Women (generally speaking) dont go out of their way to find men, they let men come to them, so unless you approach theyre not gonna care because chances are they have a dozen orbiters already.
I also agree with this.
In general, females do not go out to seek a mate. It is not what they do.
I know of one odd case with one of my neighbors. His wife left him for another man, and within a few months another woman showed up at his doorstep and invited herself into his life. It really struck me as being unusual in multiple ways. First that a female would do that, but also because this guy is flat broke all the time.
I wouldn't tell anyone about being a virgin. Not their business anyway and it might put them off. Just don't tell, there is no need to
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