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Old 01-20-2018, 01:00 PM
 
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So then you're LITERALLY basing this on nothing concrete.

Just nothing.

Got it! Well, keep on keepin' on.

P.s. I can't even imagine why you're not pulling the 19-year-old mega FB superstar party hotties, what with all this talk of Dems and MSM.
He said he doesn't like sex, and he isn't interested in a relationship --so if you thought you were puzzled before, well welcome to CD-R or I should say welcome back, cupcake.
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Old 01-21-2018, 12:38 PM
 
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Never today, either! Except for an extreme comparative minority. You need to read that silly POF study again to see how few women were actually bombarded and how the time for that was limited and focused on newbs anyway.

And yet again:

So? MOST women are hooking up. The numbers prove it over and over. (So does just looking around you...) With very...very...very average men. Otherwise it would not be "most" women, as harems are not the custom in most of the western world.

Social media "bombardment" or not, women go for AVERAGE men, overwhelmingly. So even if this fantasy, focused as always on the super hotties as if the giant majority of average women simply didn't exist (hmmm), were real - that MOST women get "hundreds" of social media approaches per day - it still obviously is not affecting the *average* not amazingly hot, not rich, not super charismatic man's chances.

So it must be something else...but of course we all know it couldn't possibly be an odd, mysogynistic, accusatory, socially just really, really weird "get me away from this guy"-inducing attitude...and no way is it a hyper focus on only the most physically hot woman even though the guy has no parallel to offer, so....maybe it's aliens.
Lol. "Harems aren't a custom in the western world" is the basis for your entire argument. The assumption that if women are hooking up, that it's a one to one, meaning for every girl hooking up, so is one man. You conveniently ignore the fact that a lot of men are sleeping with multiple women. 80/20 usually rings true.
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Old 01-21-2018, 12:47 PM
 
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Lol. "Harems aren't a custom in the western world" is the basis for your entire argument. The assumption that if women are hooking up, that it's a one to one, meaning for every girl hooking up, so is one man. You conveniently ignore the fact that a lot of men are sleeping with multiple women. 80/20 usually rings true.
Nope, I don't conveniently ignore that hotter men are getting more sex. Of course they do! They're hot. Clutch your pearls if you will. I mean let's be real, if I want JUST sex from someone, it is going to be from someone who physically makes me wild. (Though I was never much that type but I fully understand it.)

But men are saying they can not get dates because of this. Because women "demand" a perfect man. That is hilarious. You're right. Someone here is ignoring literal bald-faced numerically unsupported facts. Thank goodness it isn't me!
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Old 01-21-2018, 12:58 PM
 
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Nope, I don't conveniently ignore that hotter men are getting more sex. Of course they do! They're hot. Clutch your pearls if you will. I mean let's be real, if I want JUST sex from someone, it is going to be from someone who physically makes me wild. (Though I was never much that type but I fully understand it.)

But men are saying they can not get dates because of this. Because women "demand" a perfect man. That is hilarious. You're right. Someone here is ignoring literal bald-faced numerically unsupported facts. Thank goodness it isn't me!
I see tons of assumptions in your posts paraded as facts, sure.
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Old 01-21-2018, 01:05 PM
 
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I see tons of assumptions in your posts paraded as facts, sure.
Do you mean the marriage statistic or the way that people who are moved to have no strings sex generally choose someone they are very attracted to?

If you can calm down long enough to at least loosely tie into the thread, answer me here, if not, it will have to be PM or nothing. Those are the rules. Broh.
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Old 01-21-2018, 01:12 PM
 
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Do you mean the marriage statistic or the way that people who are moved to have no strings sex generally choose someone they are very attracted to?

If you can calm down long enough to at least loosely tie into the thread, answer me here, if not, it will have to be PM or nothing. Those are the rules. Broh.
Whoa. She hit me with the calm down. She took internet 101. *applause*

50% of men being married extrapolates to what exactly? Most guys marry trash, because they settle. That stat means nothing.
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Old 01-21-2018, 01:26 PM
 
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Nope, I don't conveniently ignore that hotter men are getting more sex. Of course they do! They're hot. Clutch your pearls if you will. I mean let's be real, if I want JUST sex from someone, it is going to be from someone who physically makes me wild. (Though I was never much that type but I fully understand it.)

But men are saying they can not get dates because of this. Because women "demand" a perfect man. That is hilarious. You're right. Someone here is ignoring literal bald-faced numerically unsupported facts. Thank goodness it isn't me!
So they have sex with hot men who turn them on then marry husbands they're not as attracted to for security and comfort
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Old 01-21-2018, 01:29 PM
 
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So they have sex with hot men who turn them on then marry husbands they're not as attracted to for security and comfort
So, that just means everyone can fit in...somewhere.
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Old 01-21-2018, 01:30 PM
 
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So they have sex with hot men who turn them on then marry husbands they're not as attracted to for security and comfort
And?

If this is true in any cases (it must be, just as some men marry for shallow reasons or without really loving the woman very much), is still doesn't mean these men aren't getting dates. (???)

Whatever the woman's motivation....some 75%+ of very decidedly average (and sometimes, not even that) men ARE getting dates. ETA: resulting in a 50% marriage rate, annually.)

Unless as they are marrying these women without having dated them.
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Old 01-21-2018, 01:30 PM
 
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So, that just means everyone can fit in...somewhere.
aka settling for trash
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