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Yes, I am sure no pretty girl would ever be insecure because physical attractiveness solves all women’s problems, doesn’t it? Especially questions of whether she is liked for herself or only because of what her body looks like on the outside.
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Originally Posted by zentropa
That's being pretty weak, though, don't you think?
I once dated a woman who I didn't treat badly, but I was kind of neglectful of. She was complaining about it one time so I asked her why she continued to date me then and she told me she'd forgive almost anything if the sex was good.
Now unfortunately it seems my talent level was more Blake Bortles than Tom Brady because we only dated for a few weeks after that but basically she was telling me had I been a dud in the bedroom she wouldn't have put up with me for as long as she did.
Point is, women put up with crap from men for superficial reasons as well. Ain't just a man thing.
You single people here make me everytime I read your wah wah stories. This person ghosted me, this person did not reply to me in a matter of second, and then this.
I mean wow, what do you people want? No wonder you all are single. You're all mental.
Why do you say the comment about emotions? I'm not sure if I like her yet.
If she were my age I'd say she was being clingy but if she's young it might just be how she communicates with everyone. You see teens and 20 something women all over the place with their eyes in their phones constantly texting. She might be the same way with her girlfriends as she's being with you. If there's a big age difference between you then you probably won't want to put up with that. If that's your age group though then you might have to learn to live with it to an extent because most women/girls you meet are going to be likely to be the same way to some degree.
If you decide you like her enough or she is hot enough that you want to see where this goes then you might want to try telling her you have an active and busy life and won't always be able to do a lot of texting and see how she reacts.
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You single people here make me everytime I read your wah wah stories. This person ghosted me, this person did not reply to me in a matter of second, and then this.
I mean wow, what do you people want? No wonder you all are single. You're all mental.
We want a mate who ain’t crazy, ain’t clingy, and shows a reasonable level of interest. It’s not that hard.
Maybe she just really likes you and she's excited about seeing you again? I mean, would that be such a bad thing if you were someone that she got excited about spending time with?
If she were my age I'd say she was being clingy but if she's young it might just be how she communicates with everyone. You see teens and 20 something women all over the place with their eyes in their phones constantly texting. She might be the same way with her girlfriends as she's being with you. If there's a big age difference between you then you probably won't want to put up with that. If that's your age group though then you might have to learn to live with it to an extent because most women/girls you meet are going to be likely to be the same way to some degree.
If you decide you like her enough or she is hot enough that you want to see where this goes then you might want to try telling her you have an active and busy life and won't always be able to do a lot of texting and see how she reacts.
Well there is a 10 year age gap and she is in her 20's, so you might have a point. But its not like I wasn't in my 20's once and dating and know how it is. The only difference now is I play less games or worry about abiding by dating rules.
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Maybe she just really likes you and she's excited about seeing you again? I mean, would that be such a bad thing if you were someone that she got excited about spending time with?
This, if you were excited to see her and couldn't wait to see her, you'd be fine with this. It just seems you're not into anything but her looks. Move on.
We want a mate who ain’t crazy, ain’t clingy, and shows a reasonable level of interest. It’s not that hard.
Yeah, no you are all just airheads. I had let go of all of that when I decided to find someone online in dating sites. MY husband actually ghosted me for a week. When we were dating, can you believe that? He actually got snippy at me when I message him first. I usually don't message first but that 1 time I message him first he was like, not now, I was like OK. LOL. WTF.
If I was still proud like most of my life. I would not have been married by now. But well like I said, that's why you all are single.
Maybe she just really likes you and she's excited about seeing you again? I mean, would that be such a bad thing if you were someone that she got excited about spending time with?
Yes. She obviously likes me. I'm just wondering about being clingy and it was only after 2 dates! If I don't like her then I don't want her freaking out. Im posting on here to get other opinions to see if my reaction is normal or not. It seems split.
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everytime I read your wah wah stories. This person ghosted me, this person did not reply to me in a matter of second, and then this.
