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It's like driving a car. Most men Think they are amazing drivers but haven't got a clue. Because they can drive straight, reverse and get round corners it seems to make them expert drivers. There is a lot of aquired skill in O and too many men, and some women, think that time and effort is not needed. Pity!
I think you are exactly right. Sex in general didn't mean that much to me until I found a man who knew what he was doing.....now I'm horribly addicted. We've been married 10 years and I can't get enough
That is sooo cool Alter. My wife and i are just like you. You can only learn by being willing to learn. The macho stud attitude fails evertime. So many people at the end of sex think how wonderful they are. It is much better afterwards to think how wonderful your partner is. I'm not into people who scream out their own names when having a orgasm. Too many do though.
I think you are exactly right. Sex in general didn't mean that much to me until I found a man who knew what he was doing.....now I'm horribly addicted. We've been married 10 years and I can't get enough
Did you provide feedback? I think some women are clear about what they want, like, etc. while others don't provide much criticism or guidance. When I was single I always was interested in getting feedback so I could make her happy (my goal: constant improvement!). Some women obliged, others did not.
A lot of women know how frail a mans ego is regarding sex. It is extremely difficult to tell a man he is doing it wrong when he is convinced he has nothing to learn and is doing it right.
Did you provide feedback? I think some women are clear about what they want, like, etc. while others don't provide much criticism or guidance. When I was single I always was interested in getting feedback so I could make her happy (my goal: constant improvement!). Some women obliged, others did not.
Excellent point. For the most, part if more than one person is involved, the responsibility for fulfillment should be a joint venture. Don't you think? You may have a great guy who just has little experience, but could become the greatest you've ever known once he's learned your zones.
Of course then there are just those ones you just want to slap and tell em get the heck away from your parts till they realize you are not a science project.
You can only discover if the person you are with is willing to learn with time. Everyone can learn something and everyones bodies react differently. What is a turn on for one person can be a irritation to another. It takes time and communication.
You can only discover if the person you are with is willing to learn with time. Everyone can learn something and everyones bodies react differently. What is a turn on for one person can be a irritation to another. It takes time and communication.
Then again, no time and/or communication can make anybody do what they don't want to do. I've heard from friends who put up with deprivations that are totally non-negotiable in my book...
There are things that are not normal. Things that frankly are sick. If you are with someone who has a fetish that you do not want or like, They will not lose the desire to do it and you will never learn to like it. then you must finish it.
There are things that are not normal. Things that frankly are sick. If you are with someone who has a fetish that you do not want or like, They will not lose the desire to do it and you will never learn to like it. then you must finish it.
I wasn't talking about anything considered kinky by any stretch of the imagination.
doesn't have to be kinky. If its something that you don't like and he does it will cause problems. No one should be expected to enjoy something that they cant
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