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Old 04-02-2008, 10:34 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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doesn't have to be kinky. If its something that you don't like and he does it will cause problems. No one should be expected to enjoy something that they cant
Well, isn't that what I was saying all along...?! No time and/or communication will change it.
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Old 04-02-2008, 10:45 PM
 
Location: London UK & Florida USA
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Yes and No. Sometimes its a case of being afraid that you might not be good at it, or that you have never done it so you are a cautious. In this case a careful and understanding partner may help. If you definately have a thing against something then you should not force yourself to do it.
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Old 04-02-2008, 11:14 PM
 
Location: Ostend,Belgium....
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O is important but only to a point. It's not a requirement for me. If the guy I was with was good in every other way, I wouldn't go nuts without O. Let's say through circumstances O could not be attained on a regular basis, I would not run off with the milkman.. Men worry too much about that, they take it personal when O doesn't happen. Mind you, some selfish men should take it personal but if you try and O is not there, so be it..
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Old 04-03-2008, 08:40 AM
 
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I'm not into people who scream out their own names when having a orgasm. Too many do though.
ROFL...!!!! That is by far the funniest thing I have heard in ages LOL!!!!!
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Old 04-03-2008, 09:02 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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ROFL...!!!! That is by far the funniest thing I have heard in ages LOL!!!!!
I've missed this somehow. Thanks for quoting it.

Good Lord, guess I have to be grateful to have never encountered these species...
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Old 04-03-2008, 09:11 AM
 
Location: Ostend,Belgium....
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Oh I never heard of anyone screaming out their own name yet, let alone been with someone like that, so I've been lucky so far...LOLOL
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Old 04-03-2008, 09:17 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Oh I never heard of anyone screaming out their own name yet, let alone been with someone like that, so I've been lucky so far...LOLOL
Many times when you read other people's experiences, you count your own blessings... Sometimes I even think my standards might've been too high... as far as marriage is concerned, of course. I don't know... it seems to me that the choice should be pretty much between deciding whether to be single or married... I can't say I've seen too many happy marriages.
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Old 04-03-2008, 09:29 AM
 
Location: Ostend,Belgium....
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Nope, SierraAZ, some people stay together to not be alone..I'm staying single till the situation changes...no pressure that way...
I have higher standards than before, the more you experience, the more you see around you, you learn to not take second best... I guess you respect yourself more too.
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Old 04-03-2008, 10:06 AM
 
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Nope, SierraAZ, some people stay together to not be alone..I'm staying single till the situation changes...no pressure that way...
I have higher standards than before, the more you experience, the more you see around you, you learn to not take second best... I guess you respect yourself more too.
It is so nice to read this, I have to agree too. Life is good : )
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Old 04-03-2008, 10:09 AM
 
Location: Tucson
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Nope, SierraAZ, some people stay together to not be alone..
That's exactly what I meant, too. If you take out of the less than 50% marriages that stay intact the miserable ones, I don't know what's left...
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