My BF is active on dating app (men, cheated, betray)

[yellowsnow]

Dump him. He is a cheater. If he cheats now, he will cheat later too. He is a loser.

[mlj1225]

Originally Posted by self-made

And, I would not trust a man who has a partner and is still online looking for other women.

Exactly this.

[TinaTwo]

Either meet him and set up the date with your fake profile or make a real profile of you on POF or other sites and find a different guy and let him see you on there. Where a real sexy top and fix your hair differently and just have fun and know he’ll be seeing you and then dump him. Seriously this guy is no prince.

[Missy2U]

Originally Posted by Gemma25

And you know, he is nice to me in general.
He is kind and caring towards me and very supportive emotionally.

Seriously??? This behavior of his is how you define the above?? Come ON!

[Auraliea]

When you get tired, you'll leave.

Until then, you're just going to have to deal with it.

*shrugs*

[303Guy]

Originally Posted by Gemma25

Never seeing him, scares me; I am scared to be alone but I love having around and being with him.

I know I can meet someone else.
Being without a man is not my fear
Being without him is.

And you know, he is nice to me in general.
He is kind and caring towards me and very supportive emotionally.
..
Obviously catching him online has showed me different side to him.

That’s he is a liar and a cheater but that changed the fact I am deeply in love with him.

And not even just that; I care for him so much that I surprise myself that I care for someone
like I care for him.

Thinking of hurting him; hurts me.

Of course it would. Op, from your posts you are not capable of hurting anyone you love and I would imagine anyone in general. I get where you are coming from. Cutting him out would be like cutting off a part of your body. It's just that side of him that is no good for you.

[luckeeesmom]

Originally Posted by 303Guy

Of course it would. Op, from your posts you are not capable of hurting anyone you love and I would imagine anyone in general. I get where you are coming from. Cutting him out would be like cutting off a part of your body. It's just that side of him that is no good for you.

But, I don't think it would actually hurt him that much. If he is cheating behind her back, he can only be so invested in the relationship. While he may seem hurt and use that to make her feel guilty to keep her around, I don't believe it would affect him that much.

I do not think that everyone that cheats has no remorse or does it because they don't love the person they are with but usually in those cases it is because distance grew between the person they were with and they ended up becoming close to someone else. The OP's guy on the other hand is out there looking for whatever he can get on a dating site and who knows how long he has been doing that while they have been "exclusively dating."

[fluffypoopoo]

You're pathetic. You need to have more respect for yourself.



Sorry for sounding harsh, but you have to hear it.

[Gemma25]

Thanks for your replies really appreciate it.


I think he already met someone there;

Last night he disappeared.
He wasn’t on POF.
Normally he messages me in the morning
But this morning he didn’t.

I messaged around 10
And he didn’t get back to me all day while I was at work.

He would normally message me when I finish work but today
He didn’t.

So I messaged him again.
He replied straight away apologising.

Basically he was tired last night and slept and he woke up late today.

Normally when he is off he asks to see me.
But he didn’t.

He didn’t ask how I was or how my day was.

And he hasn’t been on POF all today.
So he must have met someone there and they met and
They must have spend the night together.


So I guess he will end it with me.
I am very numb to the whole situation.

I don’t feel anger, I just feel weird. It’s just surreal.

[self-made]

Originally Posted by yellowsnow

dump him. He is a cheater. If he cheats now, he will cheat later too. He is a loser.

+1