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I am looking for a nice guy. Really nice. Kind. Sweet. I mean, syrupy sweet. Disgustingly nice. I simply can not be with a man who is not incredibly nice. Like all the time. No anger, no sarcasm, no snippy-ness, no moodiness, no resentment, no fighter, no bitterness, not easily set off, and I don't mean the kind who is good at holding it in or hiding it. Everyone says they are a nice person and easy-going, but that's hyperbole by now, I want a truly nice and easy-going man. I know they exist but I haven't known one in like a decade. (admittedly, I don't have a large sample size to draw from). So I'm wondering how many nice guys exist out there, especially after they get married? I am asking the ladies for information sake.
Well, you’re a sweet person and will probably attract the same to you. Hang out where all of the helpful volunteers are. They’re typically the most thoughtful.
I am looking for a nice guy. Really nice. Kind. Sweet. I mean, syrupy sweet. Disgustingly nice. I simply can not be with a man who is not incredibly nice. Like all the time. No anger, no sarcasm, no snippy-ness, no moodiness, no resentment, no fighter, no bitterness, not easily set off, and I don't mean the kind who is good at holding it in or hiding it. Everyone says they are a nice person and easy-going, but that's hyperbole by now, I want a truly nice and easy-going man. I know they exist but I haven't known one in like a decade. (admittedly, I don't have a large sample size to draw from). So I'm wondering how many nice guys exist out there, especially after they get married? I am asking the ladies for information sake.
Easy-going =/= syrupy sweet, necessarily. Easygoing and cheerful are good enough for me.
I'm all of those things. But I'm not giving up sarcasm. Why is that a negative? It's just a form of humor.
Some regard it as passive-aggressive humor. Though it depends on what the subject is. But when directed at others in your midst, it's passive-aggressive. My uncle was a psychiatrist, and he and his wife wouldn't allow kids in the family to use it. They considered it rude, not humorous.
My husband is super nice! But also can be sarcastic, thank goodness. I couldn't be with someone who didn't have a serious sense of humor (because I'm sarcastic and funny as heck!)
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I am looking for a nice guy. Really nice. Kind. Sweet. I mean, syrupy sweet. Disgustingly nice. I simply can not be with a man who is not incredibly nice. Like all the time. No anger, no sarcasm, no snippy-ness, no moodiness, no resentment, no fighter, no bitterness, not easily set off, and I don't mean the kind who is good at holding it in or hiding it. Everyone says they are a nice person and easy-going, but that's hyperbole by now, I want a truly nice and easy-going man. I know they exist but I haven't known one in like a decade. (admittedly, I don't have a large sample size to draw from). So I'm wondering how many nice guys exist out there, especially after they get married? I am asking the ladies for information sake.
All I can do is laugh at this. So you want a guy who never gets angry or in a bad mood? You are going to have a long wait for that. Maybe just because I’m an a-hole who is glad not to be a “nice” person but the ideal guy you are describing is probably a pushover who won’t keep a woman’s respect for very long.
Well, you’re a sweet person and will probably attract the same to you. Hang out where all of the helpful volunteers are. They’re typically the most thoughtful.
Thank you. I was thinking that too!
Like Mr. Rogers or a Do-gooder type.
I am looking for a nice guy. Really nice. Kind. Sweet. I mean, syrupy sweet. Disgustingly nice. I simply can not be with a man who is not incredibly nice. Like all the time. No anger, no sarcasm, no snippy-ness, no moodiness, no resentment, no fighter, no bitterness, not easily set off, and I don't mean the kind who is good at holding it in or hiding it. Everyone says they are a nice person and easy-going, but that's hyperbole by now, I want a truly nice and easy-going man. I know they exist but I haven't known one in like a decade. (admittedly, I don't have a large sample size to draw from). So I'm wondering how many nice guys exist out there, especially after they get married? I am asking the ladies for information sake.
OK, you WANT all of the above, but do you have all those exceptional qualities yourself?
OK, you WANT all that, but are YOU all that you want him to have?
I hope so.
Are you married?
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