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I also have doubts when people tell you whats wrong with you. You either accept people for who they are, or you dont. Theres not a one of us who is perfect, her included. Id tell you that you've enjoyed your time with her, but you feel like you want to date others. She may make the choice for you.
Some people have annoying habits and tendencies that drive others away, and they don't know to change unless someone points it out. The least he could do is hear directly from the person who finds him annoying and immature, more so than hearing from us. He needs to at least hear her out so to see if its something he should make changes on for future relationships.
I think she is holding onto you until she thinks she finds someone better, then she dumps you.
I think that since you fell for her before she did, she finds that unattractive and is ready to move on, but doesn’t want to be alone. She told you straight up that she doesn’t see you as long term material. Probably to get you to break up with her so she can get off Scott free. Even if she wanted to work on that, it will always loom in your mind whether she still feels this way.
I say dump her and go back on tinder, and find someone your age. Don’t invest any more in her.
You’ve been dating for 3 months. No one “knows” at 3 months if a relationship will last. You have barely scratched the surface of actually “knowing” each other at this point, regardless of feelings. Slow down your expectations and anxiety and just agree to continue dating and see where things go. It’s way too soon to expect either of you to know how you will feel in another 3 months or longer.
She told you already she doesn’t see you as a long term partner. Take the hint and shuffle off. She is not that into you. Seems you have more feelings for her.
Do you have to "dump" her? Can't you just make a decision and have a conversation in a respectful way? Not to say you wouldn't do that but when you say "dump" that has a really negative connotation.
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