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My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 8 years and next month he is going on a 2-day business trip. i was fishing in his mobile this past week because there was this lady who was liking every photo of him on Instagram and i was getting worried because i caught him deleting messages and using tinder some years ago. While i was searching if anything happened (which thankfully i didn't) with this girl i saw he was searching for escorts in the particular area where he will be staying during his short trip.
He has been searching for escorts since a week ago almost everyday and on multiple websites. i really do not know if he will act on it or not since when he used tinder he just flirted using a fake profile so i don't know if he is searching for escorts out of curiosity or if he really is willing to hook up. what should i think or do, i am so confused
What's to be confused about. You sneak through his stuff because you don't trust him and he is doing something that isn't trustworthy.
Sounds like a real happy relationship
He's looking for escorts on his business trip because is going to cheat on you again. I'm sorry. It really is plain as day and I know you probably don't wont to see it. Please don't turn and blind eye to it. You will continue to mistrust him if you continue. Make a plan to end it.
My boyfriend and I have been in a relationship for about 8 years and next month he is going on a 2-day business trip. i was fishing in his mobile this past week because there was this lady who was liking every photo of him on Instagram and i was getting worried because i caught him deleting messages and using tinder some years ago. While i was searching if anything happened (which thankfully i didn't) with this girl i saw he was searching for escorts in the particular area where he will be staying during his short trip.
He has been searching for escorts since a week ago almost everyday and on multiple websites. i really do not know if he will act on it or not since when he used tinder he just flirted using a fake profile
How do you know he just flirted? Even if he did "just flirt" before you caught him, people don't create fake tinder profiles just to flirt... he would have eventually escalated to more, if he hasn't already.
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so i don't know if he is searching for escorts out of curiosity or if he really is willing to hook up. what should i think or do, i am so confused
People don't search escort services out of curiosity, even if they tell themselves it's only curiosity, what they are curious about is having sex with an escort and they will eventually do it.
I can't tell you what to do, I can only tell you what I would do - I would dump him immediately and never look back.
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