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Have respect for yourself and walk away from this nonsense. No one person is worth torturing yourself over wondering what's going through their mind. I have learned to do this,but wish I had done it sooner in life.
Him: flirt with me, suggest to hang out without making specific plans, be nice one day and mean/avoid or look at me angrily the next, and be hot&cold on text.
You: I got pissed, ignored him and went no contact, we don't talk anymore. I flirted back and showed some interest.
why this game/manipulation? Because you both seem to like it
Why would a guy give me mixed signals, glance, flirt with me, suggest to hang out without making specific plans, be nice one day and mean/avoid or look at me angrily the next, and be hot&cold on text? Sometimes he'd flirt with my friend in front of me too. And say some weird stuff insinuating that I don't love him, why this game/manipulation? Many times I felt like he was just stringing me along. On the other hand it makes no sense to me, to act like this for months. I got pissed, ignored him and went no contact, we don't talk anymore. I flirted back and showed some interest, I didn't say no when he suggested to meet so I don't understand. He looked like a nice guy and seemed genuinely interested sometimes but I'm probably a fool here. Why do they come crawling back only when I get fed up for good?
It's the "challenge."
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