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Old 11-05-2022, 03:48 PM
 
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Four months later and this is still going on.

https://www.city-data.com/forum/rela...l#post63870899

Ridiculous if it's the same guy. What does the OP want to accomplish here?
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Old 11-05-2022, 03:55 PM
 
Location: SoCal again
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yes, sounds like stupid game playing. Drama queen.
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Old 11-05-2022, 07:40 PM
 
Location: Central Virginia
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It appears he’s not into you and it appears you aren’t into him. If there was interest, one of you, if not both, would be putting in more effort.
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Old 11-05-2022, 08:16 PM
 
Location: Middle of the valley
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Merged two threads on same subject.
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Old 11-05-2022, 08:21 PM
 
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Have respect for yourself and walk away from this nonsense. No one person is worth torturing yourself over wondering what's going through their mind. I have learned to do this,but wish I had done it sooner in life.
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Old 11-08-2022, 01:21 PM
 
Location: Ruston, Louisiana
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So just to clarify:

Him: flirt with me, suggest to hang out without making specific plans, be nice one day and mean/avoid or look at me angrily the next, and be hot&cold on text.

You: I got pissed, ignored him and went no contact, we don't talk anymore. I flirted back and showed some interest.

why this game/manipulation? Because you both seem to like it
I just love you Eve !!
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Old 11-08-2022, 01:44 PM
 
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And say some weird stuff insinuating that I don't love him
Love him? What? Are you in love with this jerk? Why on earth would he think that?

This is ridiculous behavior. "Love." My word.
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Old 11-08-2022, 04:51 PM
 
Location: Tri STATE!!!
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Exactly the kind of "interesting" man that is in demand. Fellas take notes.
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Old 11-08-2022, 09:17 PM
 
Location: Sandy Eggo's North County
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Why would a guy give me mixed signals, glance, flirt with me, suggest to hang out without making specific plans, be nice one day and mean/avoid or look at me angrily the next, and be hot&cold on text? Sometimes he'd flirt with my friend in front of me too. And say some weird stuff insinuating that I don't love him, why this game/manipulation? Many times I felt like he was just stringing me along. On the other hand it makes no sense to me, to act like this for months. I got pissed, ignored him and went no contact, we don't talk anymore. I flirted back and showed some interest, I didn't say no when he suggested to meet so I don't understand. He looked like a nice guy and seemed genuinely interested sometimes but I'm probably a fool here. Why do they come crawling back only when I get fed up for good?
It's the "challenge."
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