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Every time you think about it and feel badly about it, put $10 in an envelope. When the kitty grows to $500, buy your husband something with the money, an item, tickets to a really great show, an elaborate dinner out, etc. just because you are happy to have life working out. After you spend the money, start a new kitty. Do this for the rest of your life.
And if your hubby cheats on you, just make sure he gives your kitty a refund.