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So there’s your answer. He has a gf, no he doesn’t want to “hang out” again. Did you hang out at other times for other events or in public, or just that one time you had sex? You asked him if he wanted to do that again and he turned you down.
He said no, why isn’t that enough?
I don't know if she's actually his girlfriend but I'm going to ask. Yeah he said no and then when he saw me talking and laughing with his coworker he interrupted our conversation.
Why does he act funny towards me when she's around though? And when she's not he talks to me? Does that make sense to you? When I ignore him he says "well hello" and sometimes when he sees me he'll look at me and smirk.
So when I ask him if she's his girlfriend he'll know that I know something is going on between them and that I know why he acts funny when she's around. So when ignore him for good this time he'll understand why. And won't try to talk to me anymore.
Why does he try to get my attention when I ignore him?
How would I be making a fool of myself by asking him if she's his girlfriend?
What are you trying to get out of this interaction? Do you actually want information and clarity or are you trying to put him on the spot and embarrass him at work?
What are you trying to get out of this interaction? Do you actually want information and clarity or are you trying to put him on the spot and embarrass him at work?
I want information and clarity how would this embarrass him and put him on the spot? I'm not going to say it out in the open I'm going to ask him while he's cashing out my groceries.
So it looks like you can't find a new boyfriend so you keep obsessing about this guy that boinked you once years ago. You seem pathetic.
Who said I don't talk to other men? That's just what you're assuming you're the one who is pathetic making assumptions that aren't true. I have been involved with other men but that has nothing to do with this situation.
I'm not going to actually tell him that I saw the pictures online. I wouldn't ask , but he's always acting funny when she's around so I'm going to ask. He doesn't even acknowledge me when she's there but when she's not. He's talking to me saying hello etc. Yesterday when he saw me he ran away from the register where she was standing.
He probably doesn't want you overtly or subtly indicating that you've had a connection with him in the past (putting it delicately). It's clear he wants to preserve the relationship with her, and is heading you off at the pass.
You have your answer, so it seems you just want to win in this situation. If you don't think that's true, why not? Because you have your answer. Now it's about seeing whether he will choose you over her, no?
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