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Old 10-11-2022, 09:06 PM
 
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Three years ago this guy cheated with me (he was in a relationship) we slept together once. And then a year later he tried to sleep with me again but I didn't sleep with him because I didn't know if he was in a relationship or not. I see him a lot where he works because he's a cashier at a store I go to a lot. When we see each other he'll tell me what he's been up to. And he'll ask me how I'm doing etc. Once he saw me laughing and talking to one of his coworkers and he interrupted our conversation.

So I notice he's always standing next to one of his coworkers. And when he's near her he doesn't speak to me. Today I saw them together and when I came in I saw him walk away from her. I've also seen pictures of them together (it was him, her and another one of their coworkers). And on one of her other social media accounts I saw a picture of them with his face cut off.

When I see him again I'm going to say "I didn't know your girlfriend worked here too" just to see what he'll say. Sometimes when I see her she looks at me and smiles.
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Old 10-11-2022, 09:23 PM
 
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Well .... that's nice.
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Old 10-11-2022, 09:27 PM
 
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Well .... that's nice.
Because earlier this year around the same time he went out with her. I asked him to hangout and he told me he was trying to be a good boy (saying he was trying not to cheat) so he was basically lying so now I'm going to say to him "Hey I didn't know your girlfriend works here"
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Old 10-11-2022, 09:43 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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You're not his GF just a booty call.
Stop obsessing about him and create drama in his work place.
Move on.
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Old 10-11-2022, 09:45 PM
 
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You're not his GF just a booty call.
Stop obsessing about him and create drama in his work place.
Move on.
I'm not his booty call and asking a question isn't obsessing. He acts funny towards me when she's around and I want to know why.
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Old 10-11-2022, 10:10 PM
 
Location: State of Transition
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There's no mystery, OP. He's still hoping to play you. But he's also playing her, pretending you're nobody when she's there, and you happen to come in.

He's up to his same old tricks. Nothing to see here, don't waste your time or mental energy. Players can't stop themselves; it's habitual behavior.
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Old 10-11-2022, 10:20 PM
 
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There's no mystery, OP. He's still hoping to play you. But he's also playing her, pretending you're nobody when she's there, and you happen to come in.

He's up to his same old tricks. Nothing to see here, don't waste your time or mental energy. Players can't stop themselves; it's habitual behavior.
Yeah, he acts like I'm not even there but when she's not around he talks to me I bet if I ask him he'll probably lie about it.
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Old 10-11-2022, 10:41 PM
 
Location: Tricity, PL
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Juvenile behavior...
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Old 10-11-2022, 10:46 PM
 
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Juvenile behavior...
Indeed.

But some people seem to thrive on this sort of thing. They need that drama to bring some sort of tension and excitement into their lives.
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Old 10-11-2022, 11:24 PM
 
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Indeed.

But some people seem to thrive on this sort of thing. They need that drama to bring some sort of tension and excitement into their lives.
What's juvenile about asking him if she's his girlfriend?
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