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I don't understand why she felt the need to come back to this board to gloat about her victory over her husband's BFF. Doesn't she have any real life friends to gloat with? Not even some of her church going friends? And why does she care so much about the opinions of us anonymous internet posters?
I don't understand why she felt the need to come back to this board to gloat about her victory over her husband's BFF. Doesn't she have any real life friends to gloat with? Not even some of her church going friends? And why does she care so much about the opinions of us anonymous internet posters?
Actually i think part of her is still not at peace and is seeking resolution. I think part of her recognizes that she is hearing here on CD what she needs to hear. She may not act on it now, but it could be one year or 5 years or 15 years down the road when she is ready to hear it and act on it, or it may be never.
I firmly believe there is a part of us that always seeks peace, harmony, happiness, and well-being. And truth. We each have a "truth meter" within us, even though we may fight it tooth and nail, just like we each have a "BS meter" which we ignore at times too, to our detriment.
2) go to the address bar. Click the down arrow to the right. See what webpages have been visited. Can also type in the beginning of an address and it should pop up what sites have been visited (a.k.a., www.a, www.b, www.c).
3) look up temporary internet files.
In internet explorer, tools>internet options>settings (under browsing history)>view files
On firefox, it's easier, just hit "History"
Look for gay sites (obviously), and email address sites you didn't know he had (yahoo, etc).
Remember, gay men can love straight women. It's just that they want to have sex with men.
Just don't want you to get hurt. Or to spend 10 years with him and then figure out he's been sleeping with men.
Hey, if I'm wrong, I'm wrong. But if I were you, I'd be checking that history every couple of months.
I disagree about this advice to snoop on her husband. I know that I would be outraged if my boyfriend were checking up on my internet activities, and I have nothing to hide from him. If the trust feelings aren't there, then the relationship either needs to be fixed or terminated.
Actually i think part of her is still not at peace and is seeking resolution. I think part of her recognizes that she is hearing here on CD what she needs to hear. She may not act on it now, but it could be one year or 5 years or 15 years down the road when she is ready to hear it and act on it, or it may be never.
I firmly believe there is a part of us that always seeks peace, harmony, happiness, and well-being. And truth. We each have a "truth meter" within us, even though we may fight it tooth and nail, just like we each have a "BS meter" which we ignore at times too, to our detriment.
Ah... well I hope that not only does she loves her husband, but that she is fond of him as a person and as her friend. That should his sexuality swing back to homosexuality, that she'll still be his supportive friend and not angry and bitter at him for letting her down.
For some reason... I don't think this will end well. Good Luck
P.S. The sooner you accept that he is gay the easier it will be. I know it will hurt to let him go but... it must be done. You can still let him live with you and buy him clothes and pay his car note and I'm sure he will still really love you!!!
Noooooo this is definitely a box of Kleenex filled Maury episode!!! Can't you just see it.
Surfergirl screaming: HOW could you do this to me??? I gave you EVERYTHING I took you from rags to riches!!!
Former BFF: I begged him to tell the truth. She just didn't want to see the truth!!!
Husband with lover: I didn't mean to hurt anyone... can I keep my car,clothes and condo??
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