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Old 06-01-2008, 02:31 PM
 
Location: TX
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At a bar I went to last night, there was a live band where many women were dancing on the main floor. There were some couples mixed in there as well, but mostly groups of women. Then I saw a guy just dancing by himself. He also looked silly, not just b/c of his 2 left feet, but b/c of his attire. He seemed content dancing by himself.

Are women turned on, off, or don't care by guys who dance by themselves at a bar or club? I know many women like to stay in their female cliques and not get bothered by guys wanting to dry hump them from behind. I suppose a guy who wants to dance and is not getting the attention from the ladies will just go out there by himself.
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Old 06-01-2008, 03:11 PM
 
Location: a primitive state
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Depends on the guy. I know some guys who are such great dancers and are so into music that they just take off. In a way I admire it.

Unfortunately, that's not how I am, so I can only observe. Alas.
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Old 06-01-2008, 03:50 PM
 
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if he is dancing by himself, maybe he got tired of getting regected when asking a lady to dance, and so he decided he came out to have fun and he was going for it!
am i turned on--depends on the guy
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Old 06-01-2008, 03:55 PM
 
Location: southern california
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just another nut on the dance floor.
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Old 06-01-2008, 04:01 PM
 
Location: In the sunshine on a ship with a plank
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Usually men doing that are hammered and making fools of themselves- I can't say that I've ever seen a guy who looked attractive (or sober) dancing alone.

Maybe I go to the wrong places, but that's my experience.

So it's a turn off.
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Old 06-01-2008, 04:05 PM
 
Location: NYC
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And all women are different; you can't generalize it won't work!
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Old 06-01-2008, 04:33 PM
 
Location: Tennessee
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I don`t see anything wrong with a guy dancin` by himself. Why not?
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Old 06-01-2008, 04:38 PM
 
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i've danced by myself when my friends were getting drinks...
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Old 06-01-2008, 05:37 PM
 
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Well, I took some classes in Capoeira a few years ago, which is a Brazilian martial art mixed with dance, so I often dance alone, simply because Capoeira, like breakdancing, is one of those dances which are better done alone.
YouTube - Capoeira Mestre

If it's a dance like that, or breakdancing, than so what? When did you ever see a couple breakdancing together....if it's a slow dance, than that's just weird.

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Old 06-01-2008, 06:06 PM
 
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I can't say that I enjoy going to clubs and such, but I can't imagine I'd judge a guy simply because he was dancing by himself.
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