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Ladies prefer the machos who play the sensitives, the "wolves in sheepskin", unfortunately I'm a sensitive guy and the worst thing I did in the past was to play the macho to land girlfriends. It was not all bad, though, I actually landed a few one-night stands that I wouldn't have having shown only my sensitive side.
The hinch was, I was not looking for one-night stands but for serious relationships, and finally I was only used as a "butch" by those girls, it made me very unhappy.
If I could choose, I wouldn't be a sensitive guy, he is on the losing side whatever he does. Unfortunately I learned the hard way that's it's no use trying to play somebody else!
I don't really like grown adult men that sit around and cry. It's ok to talk about feelings and stuff but sitting around and crying because "daddy never held you" gets on my nerves and makes me sick.
I like guys that are middle of the line...not too macho....not too sensitive....more on the nerdy and intellectual side....
I don't really like grown adult men that sit around and cry. It's ok to talk about feelings and stuff but sitting around and crying because "daddy never held you" gets on my nerves and makes me sick.
I like guys that are middle of the line...not too macho....not too sensitive....more on the nerdy and intellectual side....
Maybe willdufauve thinks it's "boy-girl" to express any feelings.
Yes you can express feelings if somebody passes away or you lost your job or your favorite pet died.....but there are times when adult grown men shouldn't be crying or moaning and it can come across as "boy-girl" LOL.....teasing of course...it just comes across as a turn off.
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Originally Posted by Saberai
Maybe he thinks it's "boy-girl" to express any feelings.
....but there are times when adult grown men shouldn't be crying or moaning and it can come across as "boy-girl" LOL.....teasing of course...it just comes across as a turn off.
Yea. Those times a guy has to have a spine. I think a guy can be sensitive and emotionally stable.
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I think a guy can be sensitive and emotionally stable.
