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Haven't even noticed. Who cares...?! We're having fun, aren't we...
Yeah I don't mind, except this thread is designed to to "illicit" men's response if you know what I mean, and that gets old. I feel a slight resentment of being manipulated.
well...It's very easy. Share your bed with your boyfriend when you need such a thing.
If it does not work, go to see a doctor without any hesitate. I have heard such things happened on a single parent dating site called singleparentloving.com. Last, believe your instinct.
OH MY ****ING GOD! All you stupid idiots out there posting replies to this thread are *******s!!! My friend and I are real people, are both girls, and we really do need help/advice! If that isn't what you're here for, then **** off. And stop correcting me on my spelling, I'm sorry if i got in a hurry and miss spelled something!!! ****!
Pheobe, You just have a descision to make. Sex is a very strong chemical. It is natual to want to experiment with it. You and your friend should just talk about it. Look at all the pros and cons, ei... is the friendship strong enough to handle it? What happens if your men find out? what if you fall in love? Try to look at all the possible views and what ramifications there may be. spend some time away from each other and then come together to discuss your real feelings.
As for the others on here... I think they really thought it was joke. They may not be malicous, benefit of the doubt? Peace
OH MY ****ING GOD! All you stupid idiots out there posting replies to this thread are *******s!!! My friend and I are real people, are both girls, and we really do need help/advice! If that isn't what you're here for, then **** off. And stop correcting me on my spelling, I'm sorry if i got in a hurry and miss spelled something!!! ****!
When someone posts for the first time, as you did, and the post is something more than an "entry level" post, people think it's a troll just joking around. If you found this forum with an internet search, at random, you should have spent a little time reading to see what the tone of the forum was.
But because you're obviously young and inexperienced in a whole lot of ways, let me spell it out for you. If you post a problem and a few people respond; reply quickly. Otherwise people start thinking your post is a prank.
Pay attention to your grammar. People on this forum hate poor grammar. Nothing you can do about it.
And don't call everyone an *******. Plenty of people gave you very fair, well-thought out advice. Calm down. This is a public forum. You're going to get all kinds of wisecracks, too.
And now my advice to your post. If you're having fun with your friend, it's likely you're bisexual. Plenty of people have already told you it's okay. That doesn't mean you'll marry a lesbian. If you're straight, that's okay, too. What's not okay is cheating on your boyfriend. Figure out what you want and be as honest as you can.
Last edited by ellie; 08-30-2008 at 07:05 AM..
Reason: working on my grammar too. LOL
My friend and i are both straight, we both have boyfriends. Her and i are like sisters and we've known eachother since 1st grade and have always been very close. We do NOT find other females attractive, but for some reason.... starting some time not far back in the past, her and i became curious and decided to experiment with eachother, so we did. Neither of us had ever been or even thought of being with a girl, we were jusr curious. But then after that, some time passed, and we still get urges, mostly strong urges to do things sexually related with each other again. We don't know what this means, and were very confused by it. We don't think of each other as a relationship partner, we just have those sudden urges to sleep together again. And we both have fantacies about doing things with eachother. Please help us... we don't know what this means or what we should do, any ideas or advice?
Satan is the author of confusion. Do not follow those desires... they will only lead to destruction. Do not lean on your own understanding... But rather God's. Pray, read the Bible and ask for wisodom! : )
There there Pheobe it's Okay. Maybe it's a phase, maybe not. You didn't reveal your age, nor did you state if either of you have boyfriends. It's really hard to comment without more information. Sounds like the two of you are exploring your bisexual side. If it feels "right" and both of you are comfortable with this new way of relating with one another, I wouldn't worry about it.
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Maybe the original poster and his 'girlfriend' are both male?
Anywayz, it wouldn't hurt to explore these urges so you can find out what you really are.
