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Some of the women know but a larger number of women don't know their husbands are posting those private pics on line and sharing with other lame husbands.
That is terrible. To victimize your own wife by sharing private photos without her consent... terrible.
I briefly dated a guy who told me about a website where he belongs where guys post pictures of their wives. Some of the women know but a larger number of women don't know their husbands are posting those private pics on line and sharing with other lame husbands. Naturally I was horrified that he was a member on such a website which is why we only dated for like 2 weeks before I kicked him to the curb.
I guess it's a technology thing. The problem with digital photography is that, with the right photo/video in the right situation, that stuff can be seen by millions of people in no time flat.
In that sense, it's kind of like social media. I tell my kids all the time to not post anything that they wouldn't want a spouse, mother-in-law, reporter, or employer to see. Same thing here. Don't take a photo that you wouldn't want some pathetic loser to get off to while sitting with his laptop in his mother's basement. Sad that we are reduced to that, but there are some seriously evil bastards in the world.
Here's the nightmare scenario. I worked with a client's employee who was dating a complete a-hole. Emily was sweet and, to be perfectly frank, gorgeous. But while she was smart she wasn't very wise. Because she caved to her boyfriend's pleas that he take photos and videos of her in the nude and in the act.
So, a few months later, she finally breaks up with him and he did the predictable a-hole thing. Everybody he could think of got e-mails of her having sex. Her parents, her friends, you name it. Emily called me up crying, asking advice on what she should do. I had not seen the videos or the photos, because they had gone to my junk folder (And, no, I did not open them). But her clients had seen them as had her employer -- who was a seriously keyed-up Bible beater.
She was fired as a result. She literally could not get an interview with anyone else in town. Finally she took a job in some backwater. She tried legal action, but the damage was already done. I'm pretty sure those videos and photos are likely sitting on dozens of porn sites right now. A promising career was destroyed because she fooled around on camera with someone she thought she could trust and she'll never be the same for it.
What's more, even if you're in a loving and trusting relationship, it might not matter how careful you are. That stuff can get away from you. Case in point:
I don't think there is anything "morally wrong" with nude photos (if done tastefully) but I wouldn't do it. Would be too scared of them being published somewhere.
I'm glad that the UK made revenge porn illegal last year, but that doesn't change that fact that:
I don't think there is anything "morally wrong" with nude photos (if done tastefully) but I wouldn't do it. Would be too scared of them being published somewhere.
I'm glad that the UK made revenge porn illegal last year, but that doesn't change that fact that:
Don't take a photo that you wouldn't want some pathetic loser to get off to while sitting with his laptop in his mother's basement.
In my early days of OLD, I used to get creeped out when someone would check my profile out every day but never initiate contact, wondering what they were doing with my picture pulled up - and these were not suggestive photos in any sense!
Would I allow them to be taken by an SO? Yes, I would, but I'd want it to be reciprocal. Seems like you could have more fun with it that way.
yeah, as long as my skin is tight and not saggy yet, why not. I'll rather have him look at my pics than anybody's elses.
I am speaking about artistic nude pics, not obscene pornographic ones.
Nice sentiment, but you can be sure that he's not looking at ONLY your pics. Not necessarily saying other "real women" but it's not stopping him from his typical porn consumption, that's for sure.
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