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i had an overwhelming urge to sleep with maria lopez, but it went away, not that she wasn't interested.
my current concept of being a bad boy is drinking more than 1 boba a day.
Damn, Huck, you're sexy. I love a man with a boba in his hand.
I'll never be tempted to cheat. There wouldn't be anything left for me to desire if I'm in a relationship with an honest, wholesome, committed, loving and emotionally stable woman.
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Originally Posted by Hobokenkitchen
I think as long as you go about it in a mature way, then there is no problem. Be upfront with the women, ALWAYS use protection, be nice and have fun!
As long as you're not promising anyone anything just to try and score, then what's the problem.
I think the key to enjoying this kind of experience is to always be nice to the women. A lot of men seem to think that being a player also means being a jackas*. That isn't the case. The guys who I've seen be successful at this kind of thing are funny, smart and treat women well. They just aren't looking for anything long term.
Go have fun while you can. That way you will enjoy a committed relationshp without reservation when you find someone you want to have one with. At least you won't feel like you have missed out and be tempted to cheat.
I just turned 29 and feel I haven't really had a fair romp in the hay with different women. For a long time, my focus was set on family, a committed relationship, etc. Now that I'm older and my views have changed, I have these wild streaks on occassion.
Specifically, there's a desire to sleep with multiple women at once. Just sometimes. I'm not sure if it's a matter of feeling I've 'missed out' on the wild and crazy times of my adolesence, or if it's just a mood or something. But, many times, I want to take someone home, do them and repeat it all over again the next day.
As long as you are not breaking vows, using protection and you are not worried about Gods thoughts then why not? otherwise find a safer and kinder way to satisfy your wild urges. Go sky diving or bungee jumping will thrill you maybe not sexually but I hear it's nearly as good.
I don't think I'm naive any longer. If I could survive the 'bad girl' ways of a cheating and lying ex, then I'm sure I'll be alright in this new adventure. :-) I'm not wishing for a 'bad girl', just the company of a woman who isn't obsessed with labels, the future, etc. Let's enjoy the moment -- Is my attitude.
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You are very young. 29 is not old nor experienced. Just be careful you don't find a "bad girl" to your bad boy. They are out there and you sound a little naive. We live in a society with double standards. Men get a pass for catting around while women are labeled as wh*res. Just be careful for what you wish for, you just might get it. Oh yeah and be careful!
Umm dude, are you my clone or something? haha. You've just described me, to a T. I'm in exactly the same place. I'm somewhat religious, so I've spent most of my younger years, including college, "waiting for marriage" for sex. Missed out on plenty of fun opportunities as a result. I've done some dating, etc, but nothing terribly satisfying. Many of my friends who were "waiting" have now gone off and gotten married. I'm now 27, and in recent years I've taken a long hard look at my life, and I've realized I'm not READY to be married, and probably won't be for quite a while. I'm frankly not even in a place where I want a long term relationship. And I'm sick of living without sex. So, I've made the same decision it sounds like you are in the process of making.
Sure, my family would be disappointed if they knew what I'm planning, but really my sex life is none of their business.
And to everyone who replied talking about "taking advantage of women" - well, I'd agree, that's wrong. But there ARE many women who are looking for the same thing - whether its because of career, life stage, just ending a long relationship, or otherwise - there are plenty of women who are receptive to the "sewing of wild oats" WITHOUT needing to be mislead. I'm not in the business of misleading people and think getting someone into bed that way is wrong, and I'm betting the OP feels the same way.
Maybe you two should connect up. Like the posse thing. there are always girls out there ready for what you want. Heck alot would careless whether or not you if you were even married. Unfortunately there are all kinds of those women but like the OP said before hopefully you will wake with selfrespect and women look great through beer goggles so avoid them/
So when are you hitting Craigslist, Ronny? Can we help you write the ad??
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