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Ya man you got to use better judgment when you date.....do some research...so was she crazy or was it a combination of you and her being dysfunctional?
I just got out of a relationship and I will admit that I have kept an eye on my ex. But I do truly believe that karma will get her. To the OP just let life take its course and find someone else worth the effort.
uh it was just her that was crazy. I was the floor mat. dude that aint happening again. and I dont check it on a daily basis. maybe about twice a month. and you are right, i shouldn't care...at all. I am obsessive about alot of things. We were together for 4 years. I guess the healing prossess takes longer for some other people.
I don't think she is as narcissistic as she is INCREDIBLY selfish and slightly oblivious to it. Shes a broken lost disturbed individual.
For whatever reason I keep checking my exs myspace. I know her password. I cant stop. Its like this sick addiction. Will it ever stop! We haven't been together for almost 10 months. She did alot of awful awful things to me. And I know that doesn't justify my actions. Trust me its not something I am proud of doing and I shouldnt even care about her anymore. I guess Im just waiting to see if karma has taken its course. It would give me sick pleasure knowing shes getting a taste of her own meds!
Weman have a way of turning good men crazy.
Sounds a bit like voyeurism(sp) to me. Find anything good?
For whatever reason I keep checking my exs myspace. I know her password. I cant stop. Its like this sick addiction. Will it ever stop! We haven't been together for almost 10 months. She did alot of awful awful things to me. And I know that doesn't justify my actions. Trust me its not something I am proud of doing and I shouldnt even care about her anymore. I guess Im just waiting to see if karma has taken its course. It would give me sick pleasure knowing shes getting a taste of her own meds!
Weman have a way of turning good men crazy.
yes that is not the best way to go..//// but maybe you still care? if not go on with your life she will get her carma later for sure ... but i know how you feel when someone hurt you its hard to forget.... i seen that movie before but when you go on with your life and forgive her you will feel much better ,,, and don't forget she willl have to live with herself to know all the bad things she did to you
have a great day
yes that is not the best way to go..//// but maybe you still care? if not go on with your life she will get her carma later for sure ... but i know how you feel when someone hurt you its hard to forget.... i seen that movie before but when you go on with your life and forgive her you will feel much better ,,, and don't forget she willl have to live with herself to know all the bad things she did to you
have a great day
i think the reason why you are still checking her myspace and stuff is because you want to know whether has she moved on or is there someone else in her life now.
the more you check, the higher the chances of you finding out things that you may not like. And please don't delete any of the msgs she receives from guys or anything like that (i bet you're tempted!)
Sadly i identify with what you are gg through as I have been there with my ex bf's email and friendster account (yes this was many years ago when i was like 16,17)
I just kept checking to prove my point that he was unfaithful throughout the time he was dating me, hoping to find emails or what kind of msgs he was sending to girls on Friendster.
For whatever reason I keep checking my exs myspace. I know her password. I cant stop. Its like this sick addiction. Will it ever stop! We haven't been together for almost 10 months. She did alot of awful awful things to me. And I know that doesn't justify my actions. Trust me its not something I am proud of doing and I shouldnt even care about her anymore. I guess Im just waiting to see if karma has taken its course. It would give me sick pleasure knowing shes getting a taste of her own meds!
Weman have a way of turning good men crazy.
Yikes! I had an old boyfriend do something similar and it creeped me out! After 16 months of driving by my house (which he had to go out of the way to do) checking up on me via cyberstalking, etc. Mind you, he was with someone else too. I asked a cop friend I knew for advice. He gave the usual, change the locks (he'd had a key), keep your place well lit, etc. Then call him and tell him to stop. So I called him. Asked if there was something we needed to talk about? I was very firm and direct. He stuttered and said no. I asked why then, was he doing what he was doing? He hung up. Haven't heard a peep out of him since. It was making me really nervous!
If you don't want to appear absolutely nuts to her and scare the heck out of her. STOP NOW!
There are some feeling still lingering inside your heart.
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