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For whatever reason I keep checking my exs myspace. I know her password. I cant stop. Its like this sick addiction. Will it ever stop! We haven't been together for almost 10 months. She did alot of awful awful things to me. And I know that doesn't justify my actions. Trust me its not something I am proud of doing and I shouldnt even care about her anymore. I guess Im just waiting to see if karma has taken its course. It would give me sick pleasure knowing shes getting a taste of her own meds!
Weman have a way of turning good men crazy.
Oh just stop it already. Seriously, why do you let her still have that kind of hold on you when she was awful to you? If you really need closure contact her and get it so you can move on. Or write a letter and burn it. How are you supposed to successfully move into another relationship if you are still keeping tabs and obsessing over this girl?
Last edited by carlitasway; 10-03-2008 at 08:19 AM..
For whatever reason I keep checking my exs myspace. I know her password. I cant stop. Its like this sick addiction. Will it ever stop! We haven't been together for almost 10 months. She did alot of awful awful things to me. And I know that doesn't justify my actions. Trust me its not something I am proud of doing and I shouldnt even care about her anymore. I guess Im just waiting to see if karma has taken its course. It would give me sick pleasure knowing shes getting a taste of her own meds!
Weman have a way of turning good men crazy.
Maybe she knows you know, and she puts things in there just to irk you. Its not hard to change passwords and security questions. If it over, walk away and let nature take its course.
For whatever reason I keep checking my exs myspace. I know her password. I cant stop. Its like this sick addiction. Will it ever stop! We haven't been together for almost 10 months. She did alot of awful awful things to me. And I know that doesn't justify my actions. Trust me its not something I am proud of doing and I shouldnt even care about her anymore. I guess Im just waiting to see if karma has taken its course. It would give me sick pleasure knowing shes getting a taste of her own meds!
no one can make you anything
if you are crazy it is your own doing
stop blaming "women" or any particular woman
and start taking responsibility for your own actions, your own choices, your own quality of life
here is a good guideline....anytime i blame anyone for anything, then i am not taking responsibility for my own life. PERIOD.
No judgement but you really need to pull yourself away from snooping. You are driving yourself crazy! Seriously! Always checking on her is making you think about her and you have to move on. I know it is easier said than done, but seriously if she did bad things to you she is probably doing them to someone else now and you should occupy your time with something/someone else. Who cares if she gets what she deserves now or later, karma will come back to get her but that could be 5 years from now, are you going to snoop for the next five years? You have to find some way to break your 'addiction' to her.
i agree with dvcgal here. yes, the ex has done her dirty deeds to you. but what you desscribe as your obsession with her is YOUR DOING, not hers. And the obsession is unhealthy and damaging to YOU.
the best revenge is living well, getting on with your life and your own happiness. you have better ways to spend your precious life force and life energy, your precious time and focus, than on someone who is gone and did not treat you well.
Hearing that is kinda like the slap in the face I needed. It really makes me want to stop. I seem to get a little caught up in the act of things that I do forget that I am also doing wrong by checking her myspace.
I'm not sure how this has turned into some stalking or cyberstalknig issue. I don't drive by her house. I don't call her. I don't send her emails. I don't even talk about her with others. What I am doing is a little kooky but its purely selfish and not intended to harm her at all. She doesn't know I check it. I don't check it because I want to know if shes seeing anyone, I know she is already seeing someone. In fact shes living with him after knowing him 7 months. I think I do it because I sometimes wonder if shes up to the same ol tricks, or if shes happy. I don't know really. I feel like this myspace thing is the last thing I have to kick to the curb to totally rid myself of this grieving process.
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