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Old 01-23-2009, 04:05 PM
 
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"..I think this is a good topic to be discussing...and for the most part, agree with most of what many have said regarding the whole Nice guy-Bad boy thing.

..And yes..karma always has the upper hand and rewards those who deserve reward..no matter how one sided things might seem...it's one reason i stopped worrying.....

My question to the ladies..about how old were you when you started to be more attracted to the "nicer"..guys..if you were..
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Old 01-23-2009, 04:18 PM
 
Location: Tucson
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My question to the ladies..about how old were you when you started to be more attracted to the "nicer"..guys..if you were..
LOL, I'll have to get back to you at a later date.
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Old 01-23-2009, 04:28 PM
 
Location: los angeles, ca
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I've never been attracted to the bad boys. I have many bad boy friends and omg... witnessing their disfunctional relationships traumatized me for life. But in general, most of them start looking for nice guys once they want to settle down. Maybe late 20's.
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Old 01-23-2009, 05:46 PM
 
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My question to the ladies..about how old were you when you started to be more attracted to the "nicer"..guys..if you were..
This lady has never been attracted to either type. The way I see it, "nice guys" and "bad boys" a remarkably similar -- both types have major issues with women and a LOT of anger. The only differences are that a "nice guy"'s anger is repressed, and a "bad boy"'s isn't; a nice guy is a little more cowardly and a bad boy is a little less so.
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Old 01-23-2009, 06:33 PM
 
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I always dated the nice boys...in between had fun with the bad boys...turned a bad boy into a nice boy...then married him....
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Old 01-23-2009, 06:51 PM
 
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Well what about a nice guy with balls? Haven't you ladies ever met a good hearted, friendly, perhaps churchgoing fella that also doesn't put up with any crap from anyone and will defend you to the death?
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Old 01-23-2009, 07:08 PM
 
Location: Coachella Valley, California
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What is si33???

And yes, I know a lot of nice guys who won't put up with crap and BS.
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Old 01-23-2009, 09:31 PM
 
Location: VA
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And yes, I know a lot of nice guys who won't put up with crap and BS.
Then, by definition, they aren't "nice guys". Nice guys aren't defined by their niceness, they're defined by their passiveness. You're thinking of "good men".
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