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Old 02-09-2009, 11:47 PM
 
Location: Texas
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Originally Posted by PureNarcotic View Post
Well, good for you. Thing is, most women say this (often times to a frustrated 'friend-zoned' nice guy) and then keep going for the d-bags. If the moderators are cool with it, I would like to provide you with empirical evidence: Hot Chicks with Douchebags

"Bad Boys" are sometimes born - but often enough, they were once nice guys who realized that the way to get girls was to stop being nice.
or go to another country..

 
Old 02-09-2009, 11:51 PM
 
Location: fla
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you need nice male people in your developing years to recognize a nice guy----by the time you mature enough to do so most of the nice guys are married to women(usually bitchy women),involved in a long term gay relationship,in THE HOME, OR A TENANT IN THE LOCAL CEMETARY! sigh!
 
Old 02-09-2009, 11:54 PM
 
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Every guy starts out as a nice guy and soon realizes that women are attracted to bad boy types so we do what we gotta do to get laid and become a bad boy!

I used to be a nice guy - been there done that. Now I am an a-hole. Only in it for myself. Chicks love it.

Guys if you want to get laid give these chicks what they want and become an a-hole. They'll love the excitement and your confidence

Just look FOR YOURSELF. Go to the mall and see who the young, hot chicks are dating! They'll all look like the biggest criminals on the block!


Nice guys finish last, no kidding. That means nice guys get stuck with the 30 somethings, fat, boring, and constantly complain about how her first boyfriend (who she wanted to marry) was an a-hole. Just remember guys, she didn't make him wait for sex but she does for you.

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Old 02-09-2009, 11:55 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Seriously... I keep hearing this crap of "Nice guys finish last", where are they?
I keep running into the *******s in it for themselves. Not playing myself up, but I'm a catch!
They are definitely around, you just may be looking for them in all the wrong places Have you considered joining an adult singles group at a local church, volunteering to help build a Habitat for Humanity home, or signing up for an outside recreation group that does things to help save the enviornment? Guys in these kinds of settings are not so into themselves - they seek to serve others and a greater cause - and make great catches
 
Old 02-09-2009, 11:57 PM
 
Location: Up above the world so high!
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Every guy starts out as a nice guy soon realizes that women are attracted to bad boy types so we do what we gotta do to get laid and become a bad boy!

I used to be a nice guy - been there done that. Now I am an a-hole. Only in it for myself. Chicks love it.
"Chicks" may love it now - but that won't get you far with real women when you reach your mid 20's and above. But go ahead, have fun with the chickies for right now
 
Old 02-09-2009, 11:58 PM
 
Location: CA
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Thing is, most women say this (often times to a frustrated 'friend-zoned' nice guy) and then keep going for the d-bags. If the moderators are cool with it, I would like to provide you with empirical evidence: Hot Chicks with Douchebags.
Those women are equally "douchey".

I think this better explains why women don't go for so-called "nice guys":
Heartless ******* International - Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS
 
Old 02-10-2009, 12:04 AM
 
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As far as I'm aware they're exactly where they've always been.

There's quite a few of them around here actually.
 
Old 02-10-2009, 12:16 AM
 
Location: Northeast NJ
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I think this better explains why women don't go for so-called "nice guys":
Heartless ******* International - Why "Nice Guys" are often such LOSERS
I figured this element would be brought into the conversation soon enough, and that article actually gives a decent perspective on Nice Guys. However, it only talks about why Nice Guys fail; it doesn't address why Jerks succeed. Contrary to belief, there IS a middle ground.
 
Old 02-10-2009, 12:21 AM
 
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I have them shackled to my stove, where they belong.
Did he become "nice" once you got him in shackles? This sounds like a third type of "nice guy".

This term needs defining.

Is he nice because he was exciting when single but after you married him, he was willing to change and be domesticated?

Or was he nice all along but too boring for most women?

The first type may exist, but only in small numbers. Perhaps 150,000 out of 150,000,000 men in US. Almost never found where women are in the majority.

The second type is more common, but the past 45 years of breeding activity have reduced their percentage of the population considerably.

The shackled types are becoming more common. Since women today often bring home the bacon, they can have more say about this. The shackles aren't normally chrome covered nickel/steel alloy. Its more like I'll kick your sorry, unemployed a$$ out into the street!
 
Old 02-10-2009, 12:24 AM
 
Location: St. Augustine, FL. & Austin, TX.
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Originally Posted by killer2021 View Post
Every guy starts out as a nice guy and soon realizes that women are attracted to bad boy types so we do what we gotta do to get laid and become a bad boy!

I used to be a nice guy - been there done that. Now I am an a-hole. Only in it for myself. Chicks love it.

Guys if you want to get laid give these chicks what they want and become an a-hole. They'll love the excitement and your confidence

Just look FOR YOURSELF. Go to the mall and see who the young, hot chicks are dating! They'll all look like the biggest criminals on the block!


Nice guys finish last, no kidding. That means nice guys get stuck with the 30 somethings, fat, boring, and constantly complain about how her first boyfriend (who she wanted to marry) was an a-hole. Just remember guys, she didn't make him wait for sex but she does for you.

I truly believe you are just a moron. No one likes to be treated like sh*t. I certainly don't. Overly cocky/confident guys are a massive turn-off. I can see right through a bull-**** front, and find it very shallow and boring.
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