Dealbreakers: What are yours? (gorgeous, relations, serious, NYC)

[si33]

Has no control over her desires, cheats,swings,etc..
Uses drugs..of any kind, has a criminal background, mentally ill
Drinks excessively
Is irresponsible, does not hold her self accountable for her actions/choices
Lacks self esteem,confidence, and charisma.
Lacks honesty and integrity
Is always negative, isn't friendly, lacks intelligence
Is the dependent type..doesn't work, thinks she should be supported
Moves too quickly..tried it several times, nope

Doesn't have goals, ambitions, hobbies
Is a cold fish..low or no sex drive..repressed/angry
Hates the outdoors, likes to stay home all the time, and is too concerned with herself/selfish/drama queen..

Lacks compassion for other people and things.
Tries to change me, thinks she is better than me
Judges me for the things i stand for..my music choices, my style..who/what i am.
Does not/has not ever contribute to her community..everyone should have a cause.
Isn't fun to be with.. a wet blanket, and never takes charge..

Is overly religious, or bible thumper (been there, tried it..nope)
Does not take care of herself..Bad Hygene..not health conscious..active
Is same age/older than my sisters,or is younger than 23..what do i have in common with someone that young. i can't imagine all that much..

Doesn't want kids (don't have any now..but i want 3)
Whines, belittles,and is mean spirited towards me or others
Overly emotional about the small stuff the jealous type..Creepy..
Won't ever share in my hobbies..or allow me to teach her things..
Isn't the kind of woman who inspires me to do my best.

I do not expect perfection..this is impossible to attain to..but i desire a woman who does the best she can, has made mistakes and learned from them, and expects the same of me as well

[Sunflower_lol]

My list of deal-breakers in men:
1) Drugs
2) Lying cheaters
3) Abusers (physical, verbal or emtional)
4) Smoking
5) Alcoholics
6) Belonging in gangs or cults
7) Overly religious
8) Men who have or want kids
9) Too many tattoos
10) Men trying to put ''jerk'' mask as a cover-up for their real personality, not impressive
11) Overly dramatic ones (Drama Kings)
12) Has been arrested before or been apprehended by police
13) Men who believed in waiting till marriage (we're not in the same page)
14) Those who favor corporal punishment on children (I dislike people favoring hitting a child)
15) Lying too much
16) Overly jealous men
17) I finding out he hit a woman before (unless it was an extreme self-defense case) there is no other excuse

[Huckleberry3911948]

A CDF nut

[Sunflower_lol]

Originally Posted by Huckleberry3911948

A CDF nut

What does CDF stands for?

[TKramar]

^City-data forums.

[Sunflower_lol]

Originally Posted by TKramar

^City-data forums.

Ok, wow that was extreme.... LOL

[moonlitwishes]

Deal breakers in a man for me:
no sense of humor
no sense of adventure
cheater
abusive
jealous
needy/clingy/whiny
anti-gun
wants kids
judgemental
poor hygiene
"wimpy" (I am afraid of spiders, if he squeals as loud as I do when he sees one...not gonna work someone needs to squish it lol)
no passion

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by Sunflower_lol

Ok, wow that was extreme.... LOL

Yeah he really meant he wants you...and loves you. He has problems opening up.

[Raena77]

Originally Posted by si33

Has no control over her desires, cheats,swings,etc..
Uses drugs..of any kind, has a criminal background, mentally ill
Drinks excessively
Is irresponsible, does not hold her self accountable for her actions/choices
Lacks self esteem,confidence, and charisma.
Lacks honesty and integrity
Is always negative, isn't friendly, lacks intelligence
Is the dependent type..doesn't work, thinks she should be supported
Moves too quickly..tried it several times, nope

Doesn't have goals, ambitions, hobbies
Is a cold fish..low or no sex drive..repressed/angry
Hates the outdoors, likes to stay home all the time, and is too concerned with herself/selfish/drama queen..

Lacks compassion for other people and things.
Tries to change me, thinks she is better than me
Judges me for the things i stand for..my music choices, my style..who/what i am.
Does not/has not ever contribute to her community..everyone should have a cause.
Isn't fun to be with.. a wet blanket, and never takes charge..

Is overly religious, or bible thumper (been there, tried it..nope)
Does not take care of herself..Bad Hygene..not health conscious..active
Is same age/older than my sisters,or is younger than 23..what do i have in common with someone that young. i can't imagine all that much..

Doesn't want kids (don't have any now..but i want 3)
Whines, belittles,and is mean spirited towards me or others
Overly emotional about the small stuff the jealous type..Creepy..
Won't ever share in my hobbies..or allow me to teach her things..
Isn't the kind of woman who inspires me to do my best.

I do not expect perfection..this is impossible to attain to..but i desire a woman who does the best she can, has made mistakes and learned from them, and expects the same of me as well

Yeah if we all realized if we lived in a perfect world life would be very very very very boring....

[Ep-]

fat girls
single mothers
coke heads