Will her dreams come true?

[Tropical Trouble]

Originally Posted by Foolinlove

hi folks, i am faced with a srange but true situation. It all started after dining out one Friday night. On our way home we stopped by her parents house briefly and we both had a few drinks (glass of wine). We drove back back home safely and went to bed.

I don't give a crap about what she said in her sleep but getting behind the wheel of a car after having "a few drinks" is criminal. I don't care if you felt OK to drive, in general, more than one drink an hour is going to get you over the legal limit in a hurry.

[yankeegirl313]

This reminds me of the time, that, in a dream, I saw my ex, and a woman together. I explained what she looked like, and everything to him. I was sooo upset!
He was working night shift at the time. I called him at 3AM, ballin` my eyes out!
Course, he just laughed, and reassured me, that it was just a dream.
It seemed so real to me though, and upset me for days, which is silly.
Blow it off, unless you have other suspisions.

[Foolinlove]

well, to those of you who gave a honest opinion, thanks much. My marriage has its fair share of challenges: however, i don't think i mistrust my wife or "i am too bored and wants drama" it's just that, in the past, while feuding she has made it clear that she does not have a problem divorcing me. And "there are guys waiting for me to screw up." While this is very true for both parties, i thought her response was blown out of proportion for something so trivial. I also neglected to mention, prior to me meeting my wife, a male friend wanted to date her up until we met. He is still a close friend of hers and calls her at work. He even stopped in one weekend assuming i was at work. i have never been concerned with their relationship Until recently when she started comparing what he does in his household vs what i do. Discussions i thought was private between us are shared with him. So after this bizarre dream, i felt somewhat obligated to make the connection, but at the same time, neglectful to claim suspicion on the evidence of a dream.

[yankeegirl313]

Then maybe you should take control of this relationship!
You are her man. She can fantasize about whoever, but you are the one sleeping in her bed at night. Make her your dream!