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Ambition and actually wanting to accomplish something in your life is SOOOO unattractive.
here, let me work two jobs and try to cultivate a career. in the meantime, you just sit at home and spend the rest of your life playing video games.
What is wrong with a woman that wants a man that actually wants to accomplish something with himself? Do men not want women that are accomplished?... it's the same sort of principle. But I bet not, because then there won't be anyone at home to clean the house right?????
Nobody is saying u should want to date a bum or a man who doesnt want to work and has no ambition in life but theres a difference between that and a women who wont date a man who works hard but makes under x amount of dollars..
Well, you heard JBT1980 -- they just want a woman who cooks and cleans. And is beautiful. And has no standards whatsoever, except that mediocrity and whiny entitlement in a man should make her ooze like a broken refrigerator (sorry mods, sorry). That's all. Is it really too much to ask of women? To be servile, attractive, accommodating and personality-less -- piece of cake. It's us chicks who are too demanding. [/end sarcasm]
Way too run with a comment
My point was if men have any checklists for a women especially shallow where looked at as dogs..WOmen can have a checklist of a thousand things a man needs to fit and are never caleld o na it as shallow or demanding..
Awww, she just told you this out of the blue? Assuming the story is even true (there are a few things about it that tickle my BS antennae), ten bucks says something set her off. This is not something that people say casually in conversation, just like that. Examine your own standards before knocking anyone else's. That goes for all of you guys.
As for what makes a good man -- lots of variety is permitted, so it's easier to just make a list of turn-offs. Presuming to know what we stupid women think in our little heads (a/k/a misogyny) would definitely be on it.
It wasn't right out of the blue and it wasn't exactly worded like that. I just took it like that.
My point was if men have any checklists for a women especially shallow where looked at as dogs..WOmen can have a checklist of a thousand things a man needs to fit and are never caleld o na it as shallow or demanding..
Well, I'm a woman, and I think I know better than you what goes on in my head or in the heads of women I know. I doubt any woman has ever actually shown you a checklist, much less one with "thousand things" on it. Based on what I've observed, women like that exist only in the bitter imagination of men who refuse to date in their own league, yet never quit complaining about how shallow women are.
It wasn't right out of the blue and it wasn't exactly worded like that. I just took it like that.
Aha -- so you've quoted your ex out of context and you misrepresented her actual words. And then, you passed it off as a reflection on women in general. Nice.
Aha -- so you've quoted your ex out of context and you misrepresented her actual words. And then, you passed it off as a reflection on women in general. Nice.
Can I at least tell you what she said? And then you can tell me whether it was right or wrong and I wasn't talking about ALL women.
Based on what I've observed, women like that exist only in the bitter imagination of men who refuse to date in their own league, yet never quit complaining about how shallow women are.
Yeha i mean no women are like that at all
I would say more women are like that the men because even medicore or ugly women will get hit on numerous times because theres guys who will sleep with anything so these ugly women have a inflated view of what level theyre really on..
Can I at least tell you what she said? And then you can tell me whether it was right or wrong and I wasn't talking about ALL women.
Okay, what did she say and what was the context?
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