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Old 06-29-2010, 04:48 PM
 
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I understand women when they say they are tired and the husband should understand and quit bothering them. How about when the husband is tired? Somehow when that happens, men are seeing as selfish and cold.

Yes, its bad for men to just be blunt and straight about it and only think for themselves. Selfishness and sex don't mix. I see it as bad as women all of a sudden being horny only when they really just want to have sex to make the guy buy them something, do a chore for them, etc. Legal prostitution I guess.

How do women take rejection when a man doesn't want to have sex with them?

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Old 06-29-2010, 05:11 PM
 
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I see it as bad as women all of a sudden being horny only when they really just want to have sex to make the guy buy them something, do a chore for them, etc. Marital prostitution.
"Marital prostitution", consider that one stolen!
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Old 06-29-2010, 05:19 PM
 
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How do women take rejection when a man doesn't want to have sex with them?
Just go to MY bedroom and plug in the Wahl
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Old 06-29-2010, 05:56 PM
 
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"Marital prostitution", consider that one stolen!
Heheheh! Yup, that's just what it is: marital prostitution, legal prostitution, etc. Whatever you want to call it .
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Old 06-29-2010, 05:59 PM
 
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OP maybe she hurts down below because you are riding the horsey too much.....
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Old 06-30-2010, 12:13 PM
 
Location: Westchester County
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Depends on the gender. As we all know its only considered a crime/offense/wrongdoing if a man does it. If you are a man and you turn down your Wife or SO for sex then yes you (the man) are selfish, however if you are a woman you (the woman) are well within your rights to turn down your Husband or SO for sex because when you give him sex it should be considered a gift to him, and as a Woman you and only you decide what happens to your body. That should cover the last few dozen posts on this subject, and ones like this.
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Old 07-01-2010, 10:42 AM
 
Location: southern california
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many say they love spontaneous sex, but also say no alot,
they think if it is deliberate it must be forced therefore a burden. did you learn to dance swim or ski spontaneously????
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Old 07-01-2010, 12:04 PM
 
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Depends on the gender. As we all know its only considered a crime/offense/wrongdoing if a man does it. If you are a man and you turn down your Wife or SO for sex then yes you (the man) are selfish, however if you are a woman you (the woman) are well within your rights to turn down your Husband or SO for sex because when you give him sex it should be considered a gift to him, and as a Woman you and only you decide what happens to your body. That should cover the last few dozen posts on this subject, and ones like this.
Well, of course it is considered rude to refuse a gift.
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Old 07-01-2010, 12:06 PM
 
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many say they love spontaneous sex, but also say no alot,
they think if it is deliberate it must be forced therefore a burden. did you learn to dance swim or ski spontaneously????

I dont really care for spontaneous sex. Im so busy, I really need to pencil it in.

If one is thrown from a boat into the middle of a lake, is that considered a spontaneous swimming lesson?
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Old 07-01-2010, 12:11 PM
 
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I dont really care for spontaneous sex. Im so busy, I really need to pencil it in.

If one is thrown from a boat into the middle of a lake, is that considered a spontaneous swimming lesson?
no it is called hating swimming forever. but with kindness but with patience but with help one can learn to love to swim again.
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