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Having SEX is a chore and that's why prostitutes charge for their services. Making love with someone you love is NOT.
Clearly you and I would be highly incompatible as a couple.
Miu, If you and I were ever a couple I would have committed suicide long ago. And you would have done the same soon after just like Juliet because you would be so deeply and madly in love with me and just couldnt imagine being without me.
I would assume that because this thread is about "sex with your SO" that we ARE talking about making love. In which case, if one viewed it as a chore that is a definite sign that relationship has gone downhill.
I would assume that because this thread is about "sex with your SO" that we ARE talking about making love. In which case, if one viewed it as a chore that is a definite sign that relationship has gone downhill.
What I am trying to say is that when one of the partners stops asking to make love and just refers to it as sex, their relationship is on the downswing...
And on the other hand, many men consider cuddling with their s/o a chore. And I think that sad.
What I am trying to say is that when one of the partners stops asking to make love and just refers to it as sex, their relationship is on the downswing...
And on the other hand, many men consider cuddling with their s/o a chore. And I think that sad.
When your SO is showing signs that they are interested in intimacy do you think it is selfish to turn them down?
I mean, they are needing something and you are saying, "Nope. Sorry, ain't gonna happen."
Obviously there are times of the month this isn't an option but other than that would it be selfish because YOU are too tired or YOU have to work in the morning or YOU....YOU...YOU. What about THEM THEM THEM??
Depends on the reason. Once in a while because of sheer exhaustion is OK, but if it becomes a habit then it's a problem. I don't think I ever turned down my past SOs for sex unless it was the wrong time of the month. Other than that, I was always willing even if I wasn't 100% in the mood. I'd usually get in the mood once we got started.
To be honest...I think the woman ALWAYS should show feather fluff for the man.
Sorry to interject, but what does this mean? I haven't heard this term before. I know what fluffing is, but that doesn't seem to be what you are saying.
What I am trying to say is that when one of the partners stops asking to make love and just refers to it as sex, their relationship is on the downswing...
This assumes that couples have previously talked about "making love." This is a false assumption, of course. Not all couples use such a term.
This assumes that couples have previously talked about "making love." This is a false assumption, of course. Not all couples use such a term.
But a guy telling his s/o that he's in the mood for sex is so cold sounding. I'm basically suggesting that if guys use a more romantic and affectionate style of asking for sex, they will get better results from their lady. And that's especially important if they have been together a while. And once in a while, he could ask for sex in a playful way that implies role playing and setting up the mood as if they are having a clandestine affair or she was a hooker. But don't make it a habit of asking for sex like you were looking for your clean laundry or telling her that you're hungry for dinner so when is she cooking it. That's all I'm saying.
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