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Old 05-16-2009, 11:57 AM
 
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Gotcha. A little kink, okay. A fetish, probably not. Someone with a fetish should probably look for someone with the same fetish.

 
Old 05-16-2009, 01:37 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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I'm not sure if this is just trolling or not but I'll respond from my point of view.
Its not that fetish's are weird. They are more serious.
A fetish can be or very akin to an obsession. Obsessions take over lives.
If its not your own personal obsession you are not going to want to be with someone
who is obsessed. No way. At best they quickly become irritating or boring to have to deal with.


So what if a guy just liked you to walk on top of him with your shoes off and bounce up and down?
 
Old 05-16-2009, 01:39 PM
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I'm afraid to ask, but what is "trampling"?

As to fetishes, it depends on what they are. Some are harmless and some intended to inflict pain (like sadism). Some are creepy like wanting her clean shaven and dressed in pink like she's a little girl. Each fetish has to be evaluated individually to decide if it's weird and the definition of weird is in the eye of the beholder.

A Woman walking on Top of a guy with Heels on or barefoot. His Chest or Back
 
Old 05-16-2009, 01:42 PM
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Trampling as well as groping is practiced out in the open during the morning rush hour on the NY subway system.


Guys get trampled on the Subway Platform in NYC???
 
Old 05-16-2009, 01:45 PM
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Location: Tall Building down by the river
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The thing that would really get me is if I found a great guy and after I was emotionally invested only to learn he felt sexy while wearing my underwear or something to that effect.



Yeah, what she ^^ said.

I racked my brain just now to think of a fetish that a person may have that I could deal with. But no, there is none.
Besides, I get freaked out very easy. If we were alone and he told me of his fetish and then tried to display it for me, I think I would go running and screaming out the door.


So if a guy wanted you to walk on his back you would be creeped out???
 
Old 05-16-2009, 01:46 PM
 
Location: in here, out there
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There is a difference between someone who likes to for example suck on your earlobes during love making and someone who ONLY wants to suck on your earlobes and thats the ONLY way or the BEST way for him to get turned on.

Maybe if his fetish was spending money on me I could learn to deal but thats about it.
Suck on your earlobes? Who does that? Nibbling, maybe...
 
Old 05-16-2009, 01:47 PM
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There is a difference between someone who likes to for example suck on your earlobes during love making and someone who ONLY wants to suck on your earlobes and thats the ONLY way or the BEST way for him to get turned on.

Maybe if his fetish was spending money on me I could learn to deal but thats about it.

So basically it's all about what YOU WANT right?
 
Old 05-16-2009, 01:54 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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So basically it's all about what YOU WANT right?
NO, that was a joke. Making your statement is YOUR way of taking the spotlight off of the STRANGE way you are sexually aroused and putting it on me.

The reality is that once I am out of Nursing School, no man will need to buy me anything nor have they up until this point in my life.

Get some counseling.
 
Old 05-16-2009, 02:12 PM
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NO, that was a joke. Making your statement is YOUR way of taking the spotlight off of the STRANGE way you are sexually aroused and putting it on me.

The reality is that once I am out of Nursing School, no man will need to buy me anything nor have they up until this point in my life.

Get some counseling.


I need counseling because a want a woman to tickle my neck with her toes???-lol
 
Old 05-16-2009, 02:23 PM
 
Location: Fort Worth, Texas
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I need counseling because a want a woman to tickle my neck with her toes???-lol
Maybe you should go back to my first post and read the link, then decide for yourself if what you have is truly a fetish, if so then the psychological community does believe you need counseling and I bow to their authority.
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