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Boy I hate when life has to been this way. The girl knows she is involved but since I started has being flirting non stop. When she was helping me with something on the computer her body was up against my leg and I felt this chill go up my spine. Today I was said something sarscastic and she was throwing popcorn at me and when I was on a business call that lasted kind of long, her reply was-"I see you were talking to your Girlfriend"
I'm enjoying the ATTENTION but It's still a little disappointing because she is dating material. Also how is it everytime she plays a song at her cubicle its a song I liked from the past?? Is this what a girl would do to me if I was in a relationship? It almost makes you wonder why do people even get involved.
Some people, women or men, like to play little games with people and keep someone on the back burner, so to speak if things don't work out with their current SO's.
JUST SAY NO to office romances. Especially if the person is 'already attached'. It usually doesn't end well.
The key word there is usually. And usually does not mean always. People should take risks in life. There have been times where even I have thought about office romances and its because I am human. I've even had crushes on people that were in relationships with someone else. You really can't control who you have crushes on. I know this from my personal experience. And even if you do get in trouble because you try to start an office romance with someone, the only thing you will lose is your job, that's it. Not your house, car or cds or anything else.
However, I will say that if you are attracted to someone who is with someone else, that is very normal but at the same time look for other options. And you never know maybe the person you like may eventually like you enough to want to stay with you instead. Or maybe they won't. You never know what life will give you. Nothing ventured nothing gained
This actually sounds like one of those situations where he sees "flirting" ans she sees "playing". There is nothing overtly sexual u posted except your response to it.
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