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Old 05-16-2009, 06:18 PM
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Name one fetish that benefits the other person, not oneself.
What about if you CARED about him and then learned he like to be walked on by his girlfriend? Would you break up with him?

 
Old 05-16-2009, 06:25 PM
 
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And they say women are high maintenance?
 
Old 05-16-2009, 06:38 PM
 
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What about if you CARED about him and then learned he like to be walked on by his girlfriend? Would you break up with him?
I'm sorry, you're missing my point. A few women here joked about wanting oral sex or being given presents, and your response was that women are shallow and self-centered. My question to you was to name a fetish that wasn't self-serving.

Or in other words, what if you CARED about her and then learned she liked to be pleasured orally? Would you break up with her? What if it was something you didn't want to do? Maybe she, oh, wants you to chew on her toenails or something.
 
Old 05-16-2009, 06:40 PM
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I'm sorry, you're missing my point. A few women here joked about wanting oral sex or being given presents, and your response was that women are shallow and self-centered. My question to you was to name a fetish that wasn't self-serving.

Or in other words, what if you CARED about her and then learned she liked to be pleasured orally? Would you break up with her? What if it was something you didn't want to do? Maybe she, oh, wants you to chew on her toenails or something.

Then I would try to please her since we would be in a relationship
 
Old 05-16-2009, 06:43 PM
 
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Yeah because that BENEFITS YOU. women are so selfish and that's why I have no interest in relationships.
You just want them to tramp on your chest and neck?

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And they say women are high maintenance?
No doubt lol
 
Old 05-16-2009, 06:48 PM
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You just want them to tramp on your chest and neck?


No doubt lol

Just the Back, Neck and Chest was always too risky for me
 
Old 05-16-2009, 06:52 PM
 
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Default In a long term relationship?

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So what if a guy just liked you to walk on top of him with your shoes off and bounce up and down?
Walking on someone and bouncing my boobs seems pretty harmless, just pleasing a partner right?
Why don't you try thinking beyond the one night your imagining?
That its what they want all the time -over and over for months, years - who knows if they ever give you what you want - so year after year they are begging for you to play their obsession game - boring, irritating, not reciprocal, and it doesn't turn me on so its just always a big sexual favor which I think would ultimately wreak havoc on a long term relationship. True there may be women (or men in a reversed position). Who could give lovey what they so need every night and not mind. So apparently the op just needs to find the martyr type and all is good.
 
Old 05-16-2009, 06:57 PM
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Walking on someone and bouncing my boobs seems pretty harmless, just pleasing a partner right?
Why don't you try thinking beyond the one night your imagining?
That its what they want all the time -over and over for months, years - who knows if they ever give you what you want - so year after year they are begging for you to play their obsession game - boring, irritating, not reciprocal, and it doesn't turn me on so its just always a big sexual favor which I think would ultimately wreak havoc on a long term relationship. True there may be women (or men in a reversed position). Who could give lovey what they so need every night and not mind. So apparently the op just needs to find the martyr type and all is good.

Of course it wouldn't be a everyday thing. Sex is not a everyday thing so why would the trampling need to be?
 
Old 05-16-2009, 07:18 PM
 
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Fetishes seem very selfish, and strangely enough, less imaginative to me.
I've given my view in the past how people with fetishes seem less capable of real intimacy and enjoying sex in itself (it has to be accompanied by their fetish).
 
Old 05-16-2009, 07:18 PM
 
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Of course it wouldn't be a everyday thing. Sex is not a everyday thing so why would the trampling need to be?

Uhm....what?!

Must....keep...mouth.....shut.
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